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Second Date Update: She Started Crying
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Second Date Update: She Started Crying

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00:02:17 - 00:02:21 | Speaker 6:

it's the second date update a mojo in the morning

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alright why is Sydney getting ghosted so went on a date said everything was great even the date ended with Sydney you guys where'd you go back to

00:02:33 - 00:02:37 | Speaker 8:

we went back to my house

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so you brought him back to your house

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I'm sorry we went back to his house

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afterwards okay and do I am I safe to say this It says on here, it says, Sidney said that the night ended with you guys having sex.

00:02:52 - 00:02:53 | Speaker 8:

It did.

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Okay. And now he's not calling you back, which makes it even worse when that happens, doesn't it?

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Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. I mean, I thought we had a really good connection. How did you guys say goodbye?

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Did you guys say goodbye saying, hey, let's go out again? Or is that just assumed?

00:03:10 - 00:03:16 | Speaker 8:

It was kind of just assumed. Like, we had some serious conversations all the time, and we, you know, we really connected, so.

00:03:17 - 00:03:19 | Speaker 7:

Let me guess. You guys met on Tinder?

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Facebook.

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Facebook. That's a new one. Facebook. The good old-fashioned Facebook. Well, we're going to find out what's going on. I know, right? Alex is on with us right now. Alex, say hello to Sydney. Hi.

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Hey.

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so Alex what's going on yeah how you doing you doing alright I'm fine

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what's going on

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well so they did not tell you that you're going to be talking to Sydney and that Sydney wants to know exactly what's happening and why you're not calling her back

00:03:55 - 00:04:02 | Speaker 8:

um I guess not but okay

00:04:02 - 00:04:07 | Speaker 5:

so how was the date man how was the date with Sydney how did everything go from your perspective

00:04:07 - 00:04:21 | Speaker 8:

the date was okay so the date was good we had a great date i'm just trying to figure out what why why are you guys contacting me well we're contacting you

00:04:21 - 00:04:50 | Speaker 7:

because this is mojo in the morning and we do a thing called the second date update and sydney had contacted us and said that she wanted to know about her date with you and why you haven't been calling her back and we obviously make the initial response call to you and got you to pick up your phone call and talk to us. Sydney wants to know why it is that you're not calling her back and why she's had a hard time getting in touch with you. Are you willing to talk to us?

00:04:51 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 8:

Yeah, I'll talk to you, but does she really want to do this? Sydney? Well, I mean, I can't really understand

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why

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this is happening.

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I'm curious. I mean, I can't think of anything that happened on her date, so...

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I mean, you knew this was a one-time thing. I just wanted sex. I mean, I told you that. It was just a hookup.

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I mean...

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Wait, did he tell you that, Sydney?

00:05:22 - 00:05:34 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, he did it in the beginning, but the way it went and progressed through the day and through the night, you know, we had serious conversations. stations i really thought that maybe it was going to go somewhere so he wait he said to you at the

00:05:34 - 00:05:55 | Speaker 2:

beginning of the date or the beginning of the time that you guys started talking that he just wanted a hookup yeah and he says to you that you think that everything went great you're thinking that there's more to this relationship than just a hookup yeah i mean sometimes that happens it

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starts out with just a hookup and then you know, you kind of have a connection and things progress a little bit

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more. Did you say to him, hey you know what, I think this would be better than just a hookup?

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I did, yeah.

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What did he say?

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More. I mean, do you guys really want the full story here?

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Yeah, give us your

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perspective

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of what happened.

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Okay, like she knew, as she just told you, that this was a one-time thing. I just wanted to hook up and have sex. And after we had sex, she started crying. And I was trying to comfort her and tell her, you know, it's okay and just try to comfort her in the moment. But, you know, like she said, I was clear about I just wanted to hook up. But, you know, maybe it's the comforting of her when she was crying that made her feel like this was going somewhere else. Sydney, you were crying?

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You got emotional?

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I did. I mean, that's kind of private. I didn't really think you were going to bring that up.

00:06:59 - 00:07:01 | Speaker 2:

Okay. If you're not comfortable talking about it, then we don't talk about it.

00:07:03 - 00:07:12 | Speaker 1:

Did you just get out of a relationship? Sydney, did you just get out of a relationship or what was the tears for it?

00:07:12 - 00:07:25 | Speaker 3:

No, I haven't been in a relationship in a while. I've been dating. I just thought we had a connection and that's all. And, like, the fact that you would say that on air is, you know, not really cool.

00:07:26 - 00:07:31 | Speaker 4:

Okay, well, you brought me on here to talk about it and ask what was going on.

00:07:32 - 00:07:35 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, I didn't know what the hell happened. I thought we had a connection, you know.

00:07:37 - 00:07:56 | Speaker 4:

I mean, it was clear that I wanted just hook up and sex, and you understood that. You said you understood that. It seems like you want a relationship. I don't want a relationship. You called me to ask me what happened and why I'm not calling you back. So why would I not tell the story? I said, do you want me to tell the story? And here it is.

00:07:57 - 00:08:10 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, I mean, you can say things without, like, trying to embarrass me in public, you know? I mean, I just wanted to hook up in the beginning, too, but I thought we had a connection, and I thought it went well, and I thought you felt the same way.

00:08:10 - 00:08:22 | Speaker 2:

So, Alex, when you're comforting her, your comfort to her was because you're trying to be a good guy, I'm assuming, right? That's your comfort.

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Yeah, I mean, I don't want to be a jerk in the moment.

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Okay.

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I mean, we did have sex. I wasn't trying to make her feel bad.

00:08:29 - 00:09:40 | Speaker 2:

You understand that I think that that was maybe mistook, and maybe her mistaking it was that you wanted more by the comfort. the comfort and it's honestly i think on both cases i totally get it it's a wild accusation and i and by the way our phone number is 844 mojo live 844-665-6548 i'd love to be able to discuss this more but i don't want to put you sydney in a position where you feel like you've got to defend yourself or you feel like you're embarrassed okay so i know that you initially contacted us to be on with us are you still okay with us continuing yeah i am yeah i it's out there so okay i mean i get where both you guys are coming from i get where sydney's coming from and i get where alex has come from i think is actually kind of bold because i don't know if i could say to a girl hey i'm just looking for a hookup and that's it i don't think i've ever done that before you know i usually that's my mindset right but i think in this case that was said you almost have to take it that that was pretty much what he was looking for said he put it right out there I mean I he said I get that

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like I agreed in the beginning to it's just like you know we started having some serious conversations well you know a little bit more intimacy than just a hookup and I thought

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and I could change his mind I don't know and I get it see that's the problem Brandy what's the problem she said think he can change his mind that's all I might have changed

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Hello, Quengi. She just wanted to jump into something right away. Did she ever ask when they were done, are we going to see each other again? I might have missed that.

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Well, let's ask that. Brandy just asked a really good question there, Sydney. Did you ever say, hey, are we going to see each other again? I don't think you did because I thought I asked you that question.

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No, I didn't. I just kind of assumed the way we left it off. Like, we really had a connection.

00:10:20 - 00:10:40 | Speaker 3:

That's where you made your mistake. You assumed. You assumed right out of the bat. Right after you closed your legs, you assumed everything. that he was just going to be with you because he comforted you. He said he only wanted sex. So that's where you got your wires crossed because you wanted something more. You assumed he wanted something more. He was clear with what he wanted.

00:10:41 - 00:10:52 | Speaker 7:

And let's be easy on her. I literally am worried because I do not want to be rough on Sydney. Tiffany, what's going on? Hi, your comment.

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I think she's a little on the nutty side.

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Well, okay, let's not be an easy.

00:11:00 - 00:11:25 | Speaker 4:

I'm not trying to even sound mean, but that sounds as if he's dodged a bullet. If someone is being very direct with you, and you accept that directness, and then you turn around and cry, and then call into the radio station as if you misunderstood everything he said, it's some eggs missing out the basket. Okay.

00:11:25 - 00:11:27 | Speaker 5:

I assure you, all my eggs are present.

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And horrible, too. I'm just seeing him as being.

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And honestly, the way he acted, the way he talked, I mean, he really did sound like we were going to see each other again. Sounded like he was smart.

00:11:37 - 00:11:42 | Speaker 7:

I'm sure he draws. John wants to comment. What's up, John? It's Mojo in the morning. Second date update.

00:11:43 - 00:11:45 | Speaker 6:

Good morning. First time, long time.

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Hey, John.

00:11:45 - 00:11:47 | Speaker 3:

Hey, John on the phone.

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Thanks for calling. What's going on?

00:11:50 - 00:11:56 | Speaker 6:

Hey, I had an ex-wife who cried. It's not that big of a deal. She didn't always cry, but it's just an emotional response.

00:11:57 - 00:12:10 | Speaker 7:

Yeah. There are post-sex criers. I don't know if this is a normal thing that happens to Sydney or if this was just in the moment. But, yeah, there are definitely. What's up, Anthony? Hi. Second date update. Your comments?

00:12:11 - 00:12:11 | Speaker 1:

What's up, Mojo?

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How you doing, buddy?

00:12:14 - 00:12:34 | Speaker 1:

Good. Thoughts? So, I kind of get where he's coming from, but at the same time, I went to a female's house and we baked some cookies and you know it was good and all and i turned around and went to her house the second time and she wanted to do it again and i told her no and she started crying so

00:12:34 - 00:12:51 | Speaker 7:

yeah wow okay so a different one but let me ask you in this case with alex alex put it out on the table first all i want is a hookup do you think he's in the wrong for making it seem to sydney that he wanted more than that? Or do you think that she mistook his just being kind?

00:12:52 - 00:13:01 | Speaker 1:

I think she just mistook his being kind. I mean, if he told her from the get-go he just wanted to hook up, then that's kind of what it is. Kind of just leave it at that.

00:13:01 - 00:13:04 | Speaker 3:

In your situation where the girls start crying,

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did you give in and do it again?

00:13:06 - 00:13:07 | Speaker 1:

No, absolutely not.

00:13:07 - 00:13:15 | Speaker 7:

At that point, it's when you don't want to be doing it again. It's too emotional. Danica wants to stick up for Sydney, and I want to make sure you do that. Go ahead.

00:13:15 - 00:13:45 | Speaker 2:

Yes, I feel like people are just being unnecessarily rude to Sydney. They don't know the whole situation. And, I mean, it's okay to cry in these situations. Things happen. Emotions get heated, obviously. And she feels embarrassed already, as she expressed. And for people to come on here and say she's being clingy and he dodged a bullet, I don't think that's right. I mean, she came on here looking for answers, which she has all right to do. and I don't think they should have said that to her.

00:13:45 - 00:14:13 | Speaker 7:

Yeah, and I'm trying honestly to be as kind as I possibly can, but I'm also getting text messages like 231 saying, Mojo, she ain't going to sleep with you just because you're defending her. I'm like, no, I'm defending her because she's a person and honestly I feel bad for her and she did come on with us and I want to make sure that she understands that there was mixed signals. I don't think Alex is a bad guy. Sydney, I hope you don't think that he's a bad guy.

00:14:13 - 00:14:24 | Speaker 5:

i think he no i don't i don't i just think you know like you said mixed signals but i mean maybe you should be a little more clear at the end yeah with those conversations and you know

00:14:24 - 00:14:29 | Speaker 3:

well or if you're looking for something more you should then find somebody who also wants that and

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not somebody that only wants sex and be clear you be clear to what you're looking for uh at the end

00:14:35 - 00:14:42 | Speaker 5:

too yeah i honestly didn't go into it wanting more i just i thought we're just gonna hook up but I really felt connected and I just

00:14:42 - 00:14:44 | Speaker 3:

your eyes got wet

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well let me say this to you

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more than what you want

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this is like Alex by the way must be good but I don't know

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I don't know

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I'm gonna end this thing right now I should end this thing about 10 seconds before that

00:15:00 - 00:15:00 | Speaker 4:

Thanks, guys.

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This is the home of the dirty on the 30. Throwback Throwdown, Second Date Update, and War of the Roses. This is Mojo in the Morning.

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