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Second Date Update: She's a Virgin
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Second Date Update: She's a Virgin

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It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.

00:02:37 - 00:02:44 | Speaker 6:

All right, why are you not getting a call back after you went on a date? We're going to find out for Lauren here. Lauren, how did you guys meet?

00:02:45 - 00:02:47 | Speaker 4:

Hi. Yeah, we met on Instagram.

00:02:47 - 00:02:51 | Speaker 6:

Okay. And then went out on a date with each other? Were you guys talking for a while?

00:02:51 - 00:02:58 | Speaker 4:

yeah we talked for a while um and then we just went out to dinner we met downtown that's cool

00:02:58 - 00:03:15 | Speaker 6:

um you like the guy you think he's cute and now he's not calling you back and you want to know what's going on does that happen a lot i hear more and more from you know friends and stuff that you know are out dating that it's like guys aren't calling back after one date all the time

00:03:15 - 00:03:42 | Speaker 4:

yeah i i've been ghosted before uh it sucks every time but usually i honestly just don't really care about the guy because he kind of was giving red flags but um with with cj i don't know i felt really good about it and i actually really like him and i feel like there's potential for a future so yeah yeah i wanted to see all right we're gonna find out what's going on cj's on the

00:03:42 - 00:04:00 | Speaker 6:

phone with us right now hey uh will you say hello to lauren hello hi cj you you could hear us talking uh lauren obviously had fun with you enough to think that you were going to call her

00:04:00 - 00:04:33 | Speaker 5:

back everything okay with you yeah uh everything's everything's cool um like you know she's very pretty and the date was very good. But... So, I found out she was a virgin and is waiting to marriage, which, you know, I do respect. And I didn't tell her it was an issue to her face, but it really is for me.

00:04:35 - 00:04:37 | Speaker 6:

Okay, why is that an issue for you?

00:04:39 - 00:04:49 | Speaker 5:

I mean, I'm just, I'm not like that. And, you know, I frankly, I just, I like to be intimate with the people I'm with.

00:04:50 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 6:

So you found out that she is a virgin. And what makes you think, though, that you guys couldn't have a relationship and who knows what can happen?

00:05:00 - 00:05:07 | Speaker 8:

did she did lauren did you talk about not having sex or not or waiting to have sex yeah we we

00:05:07 - 00:05:19 | Speaker 5:

talked about it he asked me a few questions about it and i answered them i'm not like ashamed it's my choice and that's what i choose but like he seemed okay with it and it's not that big of a

00:05:19 - 00:05:28 | Speaker 4:

deal really i mean i didn't want yeah and i didn't want to make it a big deal while we were on the

00:05:28 - 00:05:36 | Speaker 1:

date but yeah i mean it kind of is to me like i you know and it's a big deal to her that she

00:05:36 - 00:05:50 | Speaker 4:

doesn't want to have sex until she gets married yeah and look look to you know give you like a phrase like i want to test drive before i buy geez that's probably not the phrase that you

00:05:50 - 00:06:29 | Speaker 5:

should have come up with oh my gosh that that's a terrible phrase yeah like i'm not something that you buy i'm a person and i was hoping to like kind of have a relationship with you i mean we could see where it goes we wouldn't be having sex really early on anyway so like but maybe he maybe he would i didn't get that vibe from cj yeah what but you gotta know i thought you wanted to kind of see where things went i thought you cared about personality and all the other things that build a foundation of a relationship you seem like a stand-up guy cj i think that you want I am a stand-up guy.

00:06:30 - 00:06:38 | Speaker 4:

I just think it's important to explore physically and see if you vibe early on. And if not, you know, that's going to be an issue.

00:06:39 - 00:06:49 | Speaker 5:

CJ, like, we already vibe in other ways. Like, I promise you, even just, like, you, you know, having your hand on my back, like, walking me out. Like, that was, it felt great to me.

00:06:50 - 00:06:59 | Speaker 1:

I don't think you're going to change his mind, Lauren. And nor do I think you need to. No, this is a big thing. It is a big difference, and that is okay.

00:07:00 - 00:07:21 | Speaker 7:

I don't know why I'm always put aside because of this one thing about my life. Like, why can't I just be like for who I am? Yeah, this happens all the time. But usually it's with guys that I would expect. And I just feel like this is the one chance that I have to actually have a nice relationship. So I don't know why this one, too, is going to just fall.

00:07:22 - 00:07:40 | Speaker 8:

I'm sorry. listen i lauren lauren i gotta tell you something you're you i don't know you but you are somebody that is a human you're worth more than having this be something that you are uh you know having to worry about but i get it i get if this is something that always comes up whenever you talk

00:07:40 - 00:07:59 | Speaker 1:

about being a virgin and wanting to and i think it's incredibly commendable by the way and you will you will eventually find the person that has that same mindset and that that that is of value to them and that is important to them and it's just it's obviously not him hey caitlin wants to

00:07:59 - 00:08:23 | Speaker 3:

make a comment what's up caitlin i think neither of them are wrong they're both entitled to how they feel if she wants to do that great for her if he wants because i feel like a relationship is 50 50 part of it's emotional and part of it is physical yeah so if he he's not wrong either but she is entitled to how she feels too do you think that because a lot of people are texting

00:08:23 - 00:08:28 | Speaker 8:

the same thing he just wanted to have sex and wanted to hook up no i don't think that's fair

00:08:28 - 00:09:12 | Speaker 2:

either he very well could have just wanted that but i don't think that's fair but if somebody tells you i'm saving myself till marriage that doesn't mean oh i just wanted to hook up it could have been i wanted to hook up with you three months from now but that's not going to be an option. Like you set a premise when you say I'm waiting till marriage of a standard, which is fine. And that is your choice to do, but it will eliminate some prospective daters. What I didn't like is quite frankly, I think she's the one being mean towards him saying, I thought you were a standup guy. You can be a standup guy and have sex with people before you're married because it doesn't fit your standards. Doesn't mean that he's not a standup guy. And I also think that It's fine for him to say, I'm over it. I don't want to pursue this with you.

00:09:13 - 00:09:17 | Speaker 8:

I think she, I think she, this is a lot of guys.

00:09:18 - 00:09:25 | Speaker 7:

I mean, it is. I mean, yours, it is. You can build physical intimacy in ways that aren't like straight up intercourse.

00:09:25 - 00:09:33 | Speaker 6:

You can build that. And then once you are married and it's just like, it's just one thing. It would be that extra step of commitment. That's all I'm asking.

00:09:33 - 00:09:41 | Speaker 4:

It's a big thing. And look, I'm not just looking to hook up. I want a relationship. But a big part of a relationship is that physical connection.

00:09:41 - 00:09:44 | Speaker 8:

Hold on. Kelly wants to say something to Lauren. What's that, Kelly?

00:09:46 - 00:09:59 | Speaker 3:

Hi. I just wanted to tell her to just stay true to your faith. I don't think either one of them is wrong. He should have told her afterwards, I respect your decision. But I am an intimate person. I do like to have sex or whatnot.

00:10:00 - 00:10:15 | Speaker 7:

God is going to send you that person. It's going to be a lot of people because we're in a society where a lot of people are hooking up. They are having sex, even if they want a meaningful relationship. But keep praying on it. God will send that person that will wait with you. And you don't have to compromise nothing.

00:10:17 - 00:10:21 | Speaker 4:

Theo hung up the phone. So I'm going to go to Mike. Mike, you there?

00:10:23 - 00:10:24 | Speaker 10:

Yeah. Hey, how you doing today?

00:10:24 - 00:10:25 | Speaker 4:

Hey, what's going on, buddy?

00:10:25 - 00:10:34 | Speaker 10:

I was just letting you guys know that I condemn what she's doing. I think it's great. I'm a reborn virgin myself.

00:10:35 - 00:10:38 | Speaker 4:

Did you say I condemn what she's doing or commend what? What did he say?

00:10:38 - 00:10:39 | Speaker 9:

I think he meant to say commend.

00:10:40 - 00:10:42 | Speaker 4:

Oh, okay. I was going to say I condemn what she's doing.

00:10:42 - 00:10:42 | Speaker 9:

It's okay.

00:10:43 - 00:10:43 | Speaker 4:

Yeah.

00:10:45 - 00:10:50 | Speaker 10:

Yeah, I'm a reborn virgin myself, so it's other day strong. She's going to find an amazing guy.

00:10:50 - 00:10:53 | Speaker 4:

What made you decide to become a born-again virgin there, Mike?

00:10:55 - 00:11:03 | Speaker 10:

Um, honestly, just growing up and honestly realizing that I want to be with one woman for the rest of my life and I just want to wait for her.

00:11:04 - 00:11:07 | Speaker 4:

Okay. All right. So no itchies and scratchies.

00:11:08 - 00:11:09 | Speaker 10:

No, no, none of that.

00:11:10 - 00:11:25 | Speaker 4:

All right. We're happy that, um, a lot of people text in saying that they are supporting CJ for coming right out and saying, this is what I want. Uh, Toya, are you supporting CJ or do you think that Lauren has every right to be upset?

00:11:25 - 00:11:55 | Speaker 8:

i think lauren has a right to be upset however i don't think cj is wrong but this is my thing why can't we be grown adults cj if that's how you feel tell her like why are you ghosting her like we're not 16 in high school we adults come on do you think it's like hey i enjoyed the day but this is where i stand and let that be that and lauren girl do not get worked up over nobody who don't want to be with you, girl. He don't deserve that pee anyway after this point.

00:11:55 - 00:11:59 | Speaker 3:

Especially something that is so very foundationally important to you

00:11:59 - 00:12:12 | Speaker 6:

and who you are and the kind of relationship that you want to have. I kind of understand the ghosting, though, because I'm guessing a lot of this is rooted in religion. And it's very hard to say, I don't agree with your religion to people.

00:12:12 - 00:12:15 | Speaker 4:

Wait, Lauren, is it religion or is it just you don't want to have sex?

00:12:16 - 00:13:04 | Speaker 5:

Well, you know, I grew up Christian, but I it's honestly it's mostly about just wanting that commitment and wanting to know that the person that I give myself to and give my life to is someone that I really love because if we really love each other then that physical part is just gonna come like it's about learning each other it's about learning with each other and like I'm up to do that with whoever I love that is the person that I will I want to learn how to satisfy you I want to learn how to do what you like and have you do the same for me so i feel like i'm a very sex positive person but it's like i just want that commitment where we're gonna be in this together and we're gonna go through it together and learn together so it's like it's kind of but it's also kind of just about having that

00:13:04 - 00:13:16 | Speaker 4:

commitment uh lauren stay strong cj thanks for at least taking our call and giving her your honest answers and uh there's going to be more opportunity for both of you guys to find

00:13:16 - 00:13:21 | Speaker 5:

somebody that is exactly what you're looking for okay yeah thank you guys all right yeah you're

00:13:21 - 00:13:43 | Speaker 9:

right all right bye tyler what's up they had a second date update i went to a private catholic school and uh and we had girls at just the other end they were fine with it they kept their commitment really that's i mean wait why did you say just the other end uh well there's a couple other holes that...

00:13:43 - 00:13:56 | Speaker 4:

Tyler, you went to Catholic school? You are not the pride of that Catholic school right now for calling that comment into this radio show. I want you right now to go to confession. This is Holy Week, my friend.

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I know somebody who lost their virginity in a

00:13:58 - 00:14:00 | Speaker 4:

confessional. Really? True story.

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Catholic High School in Toledo.

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Tyler, you better go to confession before this weekend.

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