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Second Date Update: Stalked Her At the Bar
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Second Date Update: Stalked Her At the Bar

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February 19, 2025 | 00:11:02 | Leisure

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It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.

00:01:34 - 00:01:46 | Speaker 7:

It is time now for the second date update on the Mojo in the Morning show. Why are you not getting a call back? We're going to find out. So, Sean is trying to figure out why you're not getting a call back. Hey, Sean.

00:01:47 - 00:01:55 | Speaker 3:

Yeah, hey, what's going on? Good morning. Why would anybody ghost you, Sean? Yeah, I don't know, man. I'm trying to figure that out myself, actually.

00:01:56 - 00:02:02 | Speaker 7:

First off, how did you guys meet, and how many times have you guys been together? Have you guys been out with each other?

00:02:03 - 00:02:11 | Speaker 3:

Well, we met on Tinder, and, you know, we connected, and then we went out a few times. So it wasn't just like a one-time thing.

00:02:12 - 00:02:24 | Speaker 7:

So you've had multiple dates, but now you're not getting calls back. And are you texting a bunch and trying to see what you can do? Like, what was the last text that you sent?

00:02:26 - 00:02:31 | Speaker 3:

The last text I sent was, hey, is everything okay? Because I hadn't heard from her in a minute.

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And what was the reply? Nothing. Crickets.

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Crickets.

00:02:36 - 00:02:44 | Speaker 7:

All right, we're going to find out what's going on. We got Jasmine on the phone with us right now. Jasmine, you're cool with being on the radio with us. We appreciate that. Will you say hello to Sean?

00:02:46 - 00:02:52 | Speaker 4:

Hello. Yeah, hello. Can you hear me? Yeah. Hi. How are you?

00:02:52 - 00:02:58 | Speaker 3:

i mean i'm i'm good i'm trying to see how you are like what's going on with you

00:02:58 - 00:03:06 | Speaker 4:

um i'm i'm great thanks jasmine is it just been a busy time for you or

00:03:06 - 00:03:12 | Speaker 7:

have you been getting sean's calls and did you get his his last text

00:03:12 - 00:03:20 | Speaker 4:

i mean yeah but i i've yeah i've been busy yeah sure

00:03:20 - 00:03:28 | Speaker 3:

You couldn't say you were busy I mean you could have responded And said hey I'm busy True

00:03:28 - 00:03:39 | Speaker 4:

I mean I thought you got the hint I really didn't know how To like Say it and say anything So I just

00:03:39 - 00:03:48 | Speaker 7:

Why did you want to send a hint What was it that made you Or makes you not want to Hang out with Sean or get together again

00:03:48 - 00:04:48 | Speaker 4:

okay well i mean we went on a few dates and um he was nice you know like at first or whatever i don't know and um we met on tinder um but i was out one night and um i mean i don't know if you want me to put this out there but since you called me on the morning um you Basically, I was in print, and he showed up, and I saw him maybe like an hour after I got there. And so, obviously, I went over, and I was like, hey, what's up, how are you, da-da-da. And I was like, oh, who are you here with? Because I didn't see anybody with him. And I'm looking around for his friend or somebody, and he's like, oh, no, I'm just here by myself. And I'm like, oh, okay. And he's like, yeah, I saw you posted that you were here. And I'm like, ooh. Like, what are we? What? why would you even tell me that it was so weird

00:04:48 - 00:04:58 | Speaker 7:

so Sean you saw that she was there and you just showed up is it because you weren't getting calls back or is it because you just wanted to see her

00:04:58 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 3:

I mean it was a little

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with her both. You know, I had her hitting her up and...

00:05:03 - 00:05:35 | Speaker 4:

That's weird. That's weird. And I'd be super creeped out. I'm sorry to cut you guys. There's no way it could have been a little of both because we had just been going out. This me not speaking to him is recent. This happened before that. So that's not true. Let's not come on here and lie. You know? So I don't know. I had just gone out with him maybe like a week before that and then he showed up like it wasn't like I was ignoring him at that time so that's

00:05:35 - 00:05:57 | Speaker 2:

not true just want to clarify that so Sean you were kind of creeping on her no man I wasn't I wasn't creeping man I mean if you put it you put it on your snapchat that you were somewhere I'm like oh shoot she there let me go there and you know I'm like I showed up and she she put it on her snapchat if you don't want nobody knowing where you were why don't you put it out there

00:05:57 - 00:06:06 | Speaker 1:

So, Sean, if she posted herself cooking in the kitchen, would you just go to her house and open the window and slide in because she posted, so she must want you there?

00:06:07 - 00:06:07 | Speaker 2:

No, that's creepy.

00:06:08 - 00:06:15 | Speaker 1:

That's creepy, but showing up at her plans unannounced is not creepy? By himself.

00:06:16 - 00:06:20 | Speaker 4:

Mind you, he didn't even have a friend with him. He came home.

00:06:22 - 00:06:26 | Speaker 2:

It's a public place. You know, I would show up at her house, but the rest of it, yeah.

00:06:26 - 00:06:45 | Speaker 4:

So how was I supposed to even respond to you? Now you're going to call me on here. Why am I not speaking? I thought you understood that. I didn't know if you were going to find my house or something. I just thought it would be better just to not even give you any ammunition. So I don't know. This is super weird, actually.

00:06:46 - 00:07:05 | Speaker 7:

Sean doesn't sound like the creepy kind of guy. I know it sounds weird that sometimes creepy kind of guys have a sound to him. But he doesn't sound like that. But what he did, obviously, was creepy. But I'm also under the belief that if you like a guy enough, like, if that guy's hot, like, somebody that you're really into, that would excite you that he just showed up.

00:07:05 - 00:07:08 | Speaker 5:

Interesting. I don't think so. Yeah, I don't.

00:07:08 - 00:07:14 | Speaker 6:

This is one of the, like, normally I say that, oh, if he was hot, it would be okay. I still feel like it would freak me out a little bit.

00:07:14 - 00:07:26 | Speaker 4:

His intentions seem to be weird. It wasn't like we had been dating for a long time. Like, we had only been on a few dates. Like, it wasn't, like, I don't care who it is. Like, it's weird to always go out, like, a couple times, and then you just show up places by yourself.

00:07:26 - 00:07:27 | Speaker 2:

Time out, time out, time out.

00:07:27 - 00:07:31 | Speaker 4:

Like, you could have released by a friend and said you had someone with you. Hold on.

00:07:31 - 00:07:33 | Speaker 7:

Time out, Sean. Go ahead. What's up?

00:07:33 - 00:07:37 | Speaker 2:

Y'all not about to paint me like I'm some freak master.

00:07:38 - 00:07:39 | Speaker 7:

No, we're not going to do that.

00:07:40 - 00:07:52 | Speaker 2:

You posted on your Snapchat. You were out. I saw it. I decided to show up so I can't see you. You ain't like that. Oh, my God. You could have told me that that night. He is not going to understand this.

00:07:52 - 00:08:01 | Speaker 7:

Erica. Erica wants to comment. A listener of ours wants to comment. 844-MOJO-LIVE, 844-665-6548. Second date update if you want to make a comment. Hi, Erica.

00:08:02 - 00:08:16 | Speaker 4:

Good morning. I kind of agree with you, Mojo. I feel like a lot of times when somebody comes off a little too strong, it just means that the person's not that into them. I think if you really liked him, you would say that he showed initiative and all that stuff.

00:08:16 - 00:08:35 | Speaker 7:

Yeah, you know, like this is what girls girls want a guy that shows initiative and says something. Here's a guy that shows up at a bar basically say, hey, I saw you were on Snapchat. I want to come up and see you. But I don't want to be stalked. Is he stalking? Is she is he stalking if she's excited to see him? If she's excited to see him, it's not stalking.

00:08:35 - 00:08:47 | Speaker 1:

There is a difference between us talking and saying, hey, I'm going out with my girlfriends. This is where we're going to be. yada yada yada versus me posting on social and you just showing up unannounced so he should text

00:08:47 - 00:09:10 | Speaker 7:

her ahead of time and say i see that you're out can i come up if you don't come he just shouldn't have said how he knew she was there he should have just showed up well that's it lie i agree with you i you're you're you're too honest of a guy john what's up angelica and but i said that name really good morning i said i need a breathalyzer i just said your name like i was drunk Hi, Angelica.

00:09:10 - 00:09:21 | Speaker 3:

Yes. Hi, it's Angelica from Detroit. First time long. Hey, Angelica on the phone. Thank you. And guess my kid is not in the car. It's just the baby. She's one.

00:09:21 - 00:09:21 | Speaker 5:

I love it.

00:09:21 - 00:09:37 | Speaker 3:

No, it can lead to like stalking. I had a situation. And yes, everybody closes things on social media. It does. He could have just said, oh, I just so happened to like be here. But it is pretty creepy because something serious like that happening. It can lead to like a situation.

00:09:37 - 00:09:40 | Speaker 7:

What happened? And the guy started showing up at your places?

00:09:41 - 00:09:52 | Speaker 3:

Yeah. Like, everywhere I posted because I'm pretty popular on social media. So I would post, like, oh, we're hanging out here, me and my friends. And, like, he would, like, just randomly be at places. He came to my job before.

00:09:52 - 00:09:54 | Speaker 7:

Oh. It's so weird. That's crazy.

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You don't post and you leave.

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Watch out.

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She has to protect herself. I can see how it's crazy.

00:10:00 - 00:10:07 | Speaker 4:

Angelica, thank you for the call. What's up, Miracle? Hi. Hey, Miracle. What's going on? Second date update. What did you want to say?

00:10:08 - 00:10:16 | Speaker 8:

So I think it was really cute because if I'm dealing with somebody and we've been kicking it for a bit and he's so up, okay, now we're about to have a time.

00:10:17 - 00:10:17 | Speaker 4:

Yeah.

00:10:17 - 00:10:22 | Speaker 8:

We at the bar. We're about to have a time. I don't think there was anything wrong with it. Maybe I'm weird.

00:10:23 - 00:10:29 | Speaker 4:

Okay. Well, the last caller brought up a really good point about the stalking part. You just say that it sounds good. What about you, Rebecca? What do you say?

00:10:30 - 00:10:43 | Speaker 7:

yeah i mean we're living in a in a culture like a hookup culture right where men are not making an effort and so you got this guy who's actually making an effort to show up more than just a

00:10:43 - 00:10:59 | Speaker 6:

hookup well now that's creepy truly we are also in the era of murder documentaries and we've seen this play out but hey at least you're showing him you're showing attention if you're murdering Ted Bundy was just really going out of his way to follow women and show up.

00:11:00 - 00:11:09 | Speaker 7:

What? You're on social media saying, here I am. Come murder me. And then upset because somebody shows up. This is what? I'm blaming. This is I'm not a murderer. I'm blaming.

00:11:10 - 00:11:10 | Speaker 6:

He said I'm not a murderer.

00:11:10 - 00:11:13 | Speaker 7:

Sean is not. Oh, my God.

00:11:15 - 00:11:18 | Speaker 4:

Symphony, second date update. What do you think? Is Sean a murderer?

00:11:19 - 00:11:24 | Speaker 7:

No, I do not define that as creepy or a murderer. That is actually so cute.

00:11:24 - 00:11:27 | Speaker 4:

Would you like Sean's number?

00:11:29 - 00:11:32 | Speaker 8:

Actually, I have a boyfriend, and his name is Sean.

00:11:32 - 00:11:47 | Speaker 4:

Okay, well, it makes it less confusing. All right, but you thought if your guy showed up at the bar, the guy that you were just starting to date just a few times showed up at the bar like Sean did to Jasmine, you would actually think that it was cute. A lot of people, by the way, are saying that, Megan.

00:11:48 - 00:12:02 | Speaker 6:

This truly is wild to me. I feel like you had a conversation with the audience when I wasn't paying attention. I'm not leaving you out on this limb. I agree with you. You played something on the air like the password is, please call in and say this guy.

00:12:02 - 00:12:04 | Speaker 4:

I said, where are my creeps at? Where are my creepies?

00:12:04 - 00:12:07 | Speaker 6:

I don't understand how every caller is saying that.

00:12:07 - 00:12:12 | Speaker 4:

Eric sides with the fact that he thinks it's creepy for a reason. What is that, Eric?

00:12:14 - 00:12:20 | Speaker 8:

It's only creepy if he drove more than 20 minutes. Like, if you drive further, that's a creep.

00:12:20 - 00:12:26 | Speaker 4:

How long of a drive was it, Sean? 20 minutes. Okay. Shut up, Josh.

00:12:26 - 00:12:30 | Speaker 7:

He just made me. Just under the creepy wire.

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