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Second Date Update: Still Lives With Wife
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Second Date Update: Still Lives With Wife

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All right, time now for second date update. If you are not getting a call back from somebody that you have gone out on a date with, text DATE to 95500, and we will get you on the show. Mojo in the Morning Show. So here's the deal. We're trying to figure out why Joey is not getting a call back. Joey? Good morning. Good morning. So how did you guys meet, Joey?

00:03:04 - 00:03:45 | Speaker 5:

uh we met um we we went on a date we went on a date together we got drinks okay um it was really good vibes were really high um yeah and and i yeah it was a good date and i just i i assumed there was going to be a second one but she just has not answered me so um were you guys talking for a while before you guys had gone out uh you know not like too long just like a like you know like a week you know you've matched on an app and then you talk for a week or so and then you go out and usually it's either good or bad and if it's good i imagine you get answered at least so were

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you not getting answered right away so it must not have been good to her um it was not right away

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that she didn't answer me i we were texting for a little bit and then okay just dropped and i was

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like and because then it wasn't necessarily what happened on the date maybe it's just that she got busy with stuff we'll find out what's going on because I always say that if you get blown off right away they're not interested they either didn't like what they saw or didn't like what they did or we'll figure it out on the phone with us right now is Andrea Andrea are you cool with talking to Joey right now sure will you say hello to him hello hi Andrea hey Andrea Joey was talking to us about how you guys matched and then went out, and now you're not talking to him. What's going on? What's the story?

00:04:42 - 00:04:47 | Speaker 2:

Well, I did talk to him. I texted him.

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You texted him that you didn't want another date or didn't want to talk or you were busy or what did you text? Because he said that you've gone dark on him.

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Uh, I mean, I did message him, though, a little bit, I think.

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Okay. Well, talk to us about what you messaged him. What did you message him?

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Um, I don't really remember.

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You don't remember?

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Can you go back and look?

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Joey, what did she message you?

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Well, she was just, um, she, you know, she just sort of just fell off. It was good conversation. And, you know, we were just talking like normal. I was talking about McNabee going on a second date. And then one day she just, you know, didn't answer me. And I just assumed that I was getting ghosted, you know, which kind of stinks because we were having, we had a great time. And I thought the vibe was really good. So I figured there might have been a reason. So I'm trying to find out why you might not have answered me.

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So something happened after the date. I take it.

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That's what I think. Is that the case, Andrea?

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Because if you're texting him right after the date, but then all of a sudden stop. Yeah. What happened there?

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Okay. So I was at the gym. And I was in the sauna. And I was telling one of my friends about him. and i showed her his picture and she recognized him um she said that he's married to her second

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cousin what are you married joey i i am i am not i am not married i am adamantly not i mean like technically technically yes but i'm separated i'm not married um i first of all i honestly don't think your friend has any business saying all that to you about me but i i'm not married

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her her friend knows obviously that you're you're a married guy you're a married guy

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yes i mean like i i i am like on paper married but i am in the process of moving out i'm not like i'm not in a relationship with anyone if i was i wouldn't be going on dates you know live with her

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i'm in the process of moving out you guys are you guys divorcing or what are you doing

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that is the intention yes it's i mean i'm sure you can understand it's more complicated

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i i get why she wanted to walk away from the situation yep did you talk about or let me ask

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andrea andrea did he talk about that he was married uh no this was a complete shock to me

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did he talk at all about his life and what his life was and where he lived and who he lives with

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no i mean it was just a first date yeah do we have to is that something you got to disclose

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well i think if you're a married guy and you're still living with your ex i would assume that you would sit there and say yeah i'm kind of going through this right now and say something just like if you just went through a divorce or a big breakup i think people want to know what stories i mean i think when you're on a first date you don't talk about what your life is all

00:08:25 - 00:08:49 | Speaker 2:

about you don't talk about what's going on not the marriage stuff here's the thing i was totally on his side i have seen so many divorces take years and i think people move on and they're ready for the next step in their life, whatever. But as soon as this guy said, I'm in the process of moving out, I said, nope, I don't have your back too soon. You cannot, you can't do that.

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See, and I think that this is something that you talk about on a first date. Because I think that that's a bit of information that's really important. And that's also a question that I would ask right away. Like, have you ever been married before? Do you have kids? like those are all important bits of information to me so i think that that was definitely something that you should have shared and by the way like it could have cleared up this whole conversation and situation by you saying i'm in the process of divorce it's taking forever you know here's i don't think you have to give all the dirty details but i do think because then then this happens and people are like oh wait he's married dude but if she doesn't ask and by him just

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voluntarily given that information it can cause for some extreme problems and if he's at a did but if he's at a point where he's definitely over his on-paper wife and he's ready to move on then if it's going to prevent him from having the ability to move on by telling him he's married

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he's never going to be happy but i don't know that he is we have the intention of divorcing i'm in the process of moving now true i don't know

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Okay.

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Andrea, does this make you not want to go out with him again, even if you found out that the wife was completely out of the picture and it was just they were roommates?

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It just seems really complicated.

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And you just don't want to get involved in the messiness of what's going on right now?

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Yeah, it just doesn't seem like a lot of fun. I'm sorry, I didn't want to make a big deal out of this.

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Angie wants to make a comment. What's up, Angie?

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Hi, good morning.

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Morning. What's going on, second date update?

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I'm not really sure why this guy would want to bring his drama into an innocent place.

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In the midst of what's going on right now. Oh, turn your radio down, please. Whoever's got the radio up.

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Got it.

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Okay. Is that Angie or is that Joey or Andrea that did that? Angie, turn your radio down. Angie. So you don't know why he would want to bring somebody else into the complication. Maybe he needs a little time to himself before he starts dating.

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Yeah, you don't bring an innocent person into a party when you haven't cleaned out your old baggage. Don't bring bad into new.

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Good point. Tina, what's up?

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Mojo, that would have been a deal breaker for me because you're technically still in the house with your wife. Don't put me in the middle of your shenanigans. once you've eased the marriage then we could think about talking or whatever but he was 100% wrong he should have told her and let her decide if she wanted to deal with him or not

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so he should have brought this up while they were on their very first date so she had a way to make it

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because let me tell you something people are crazy and just say for instance the wife is not feeling what he's feeling i wouldn't see what it popped up on them on their date and acted that crazy on this woman and this woman had no idea of what the freaking was going on yeah i get it no that's a good point

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does he bring it up while they're talking on the app or does he wait to the date no the app because all i'm hearing is he should have said it on a date but we're not even we're not even talking

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about the fact they were talking to the date i think andrea you probably think before the date too right you think he should have said something to you while you guys were just texting

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I just don't think he should be dating if he's still living with his wife.

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That's a good point. Lynn, what's up? Lynn, what do you think?

00:12:30 - 00:12:52 | Speaker 5:

I 100% agree with her. He should not be, one, trying to date while he's still in the process of moving out. It's like you can't be alone for two seconds. That's a big red flag in and of itself. It's like take the time to figure your crap out, heal from it, and then you can enter into a new relation. and ship in a healthier place.

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See, that's an evolved woman talking. Everybody ain't that evolved, though. Marissa, what's up? It's Mojo in the morning. Are you an evolved woman, Marissa?

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Good morning, Mojo. How are you?

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Fantastic. Second date update.

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Okay, so I'm listening right now, and I actually married the married-separated guy.

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Oh, geez. So you weren't so involved, were you?

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After ghosting him for a month, And he was very persistent And we ended up going on another date He didn't end up getting divorced And we have been married now For six and a half years

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What advice are you going to give Andrea right now?

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Maybe give him a second chance I mean, he was married They were separated They were living together And I trusted him And it worked out We're actually due with our second baby in a month

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Marissa, when did he tell you That that was his situation?

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So, I knew he was married.

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Okay. I knew they were separated. See, that's a big difference. Like, you got to make that decision before you decided to go out with him.

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That's true. Yeah, I think he definitely should have been up front about that. Maybe he was worried it would have ended in her not talking to him. Because I did ghost my now husband for a month when I just wasn't feeling good about it. You know, you're like, I have morals. This seems wrong.

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So, maybe, Andrea, give it a little bit of time before you throw it completely away. unless you don't really feel it at all?

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I mean, I guess. I just, I don't know. He's being like really defensive about it too.

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Hey, you guys will at least have common friends, the person that was in the sauna with you or wherever you were. I don't know. By the way, how do you just sit there and start showing? You guys should go. Was it a sauna that you were in?

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Yeah.

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Okay. Just showing pictures. Let me show you the guy I went out with. Oh, my God. That's my cousin's husband. I would have been like, I'm out of the sauna. This place is getting hotter. All right. This is the home of the dirty of the 30s.

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