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Second Date Update: Still Wearing The Ring
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Second Date Update: Still Wearing The Ring

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October 21, 2024 | 00:11:37 | Leisure

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All right, time now for the second date update. Why are you not getting a call? We're going to find out this morning here on the show. If you are not getting a call back after you've gone out on a couple, one or two dates, who knows? Or it could be like a long-term relationship. Text DATE to 95500 and we'll get you on the show. Sarah is on with us right now. Sarah, you're getting ghosted. What's happening? hi how are you we're doing good so sarah tell us about the person that's ghosting you and then we'll find out some answers for you um how'd you guys meet um we met on one of the apps okay and have you guys been talking for a while uh yeah i guess we talked for like

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a week, week and a half and then we went out for dinner and we had a really great time and I thought everything was good and now I haven't heard from him and I'm bummed about it.

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Let's find out what's going on here. Jeremy is on the phone with us right now. Jeremy, will you say hello to Sarah?

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Hey Sarah.

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Oh, hi. Hey, Jeremy. So Sarah says that you guys met like everybody does, that you guys have been talking like everybody does, you guys went on a date like everybody does, and then you stopped calling her like it seems like everybody does. What's going on? Have you just been busy and just haven't had an opportunity to call her, or what's going on?

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Yeah, I mean, I've been pretty busy, so I just haven't really been able to call her but you know it was fine

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it was fine meaning the date was fine

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yeah it was alright we had a good time but you know I've been busy haven't really been able to have time to call her back

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that just doesn't seem like it's the full answer sounds to me like you're only giving us partial answer

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Yeah. I mean, the only thing was she had a wedding ring on, which is kind of weird.

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Well, now I'm on your side. Yeah, so I'm a widow, and my husband passed away.

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I'm sorry.

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Thank you.

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How long ago did your husband pass away?

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Five years.

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oh man by the way back back on your side so you so your your your husband passed your husband died

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and you still wear the wedding ring yeah you know um it's just been very hard to

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take off i finally started dating again that i'm so used to it on my hand and uh you know i'm i'm figuring out how to how to move forward and turn a date and i really like this guy and i didn't know if just the fact that i was a widow totally freaked him out yeah but don't you think by

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wearing the ring and not addressing it it's just going to lead to problems like this because i think if you bring up i'm a widow i'm still uncomfortable taking this off that's a way more reasonable than somebody showing up and not addressing the ring on their hand

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oh well i had told him oh you talked so you told him about on the day talked about it okay oh so jeremy so she told you about losing her husband and you still had a had kind of an issue with her

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wearing the ring yeah i mean i'm sorry her husband died but that was five years ago i mean she's still holding on to feelings it's just i mean it was five years ago

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but five but this is also her husband this is somebody that she loved and i think have you ever lost anybody in your life i mean you lose a loved one you never forget

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yeah but i'm not wearing a ring about it or going out on dates and still bringing it up

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but i i gotta i gotta tell you jeremy and i don't know if you necessarily mean it the way that you mean it because it comes off a little harsh but when you lose somebody even in breakups you see people lose people in breakups and it's tough but to lose somebody and death like this, I cannot even imagine how hard that must be for Sarah. And if she's just wearing the symbol of that, which is the ring, she's at least getting back on her two feet and going out on dates with you.

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Yeah, I mean, I get what you're saying, but I mean, it just doesn't seem like she's moved on. So I don't even know if she's ready to date.

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Do you feel like you're ready to date, Sarah? I mean, obviously you must. You're out on a date.

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Yeah. How many dates have you been on? I've actually always worn a ring on that hand. I've been on like three or four, I guess.

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Have anybody that you've gone on a date with had any other concerns like this? Jeremy's the only one.

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He's the big one so far.

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Wow.

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um the others I think we just kind of didn't feel sparky when we were together but I thought he and I had a really nice conversation in time and then I just didn't hear from it all which you know maybe dating has changed I haven't done it in a long time

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well I wouldn't know he's a douche but just so I'm clear Sarah you knew the ring you knew you had the ring on and you decided to keep it on right you didn't yeah I didn't I wasn't like

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hiding anything um we talked about you know that my husband had passed away on the date and uh and I had the ring on honestly I've always worn a ring on my left hand that's just what's comfortable and so I guess it's a little bit of a security blanket but did you ever consider did

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you ever consider not to wear it on the date like obviously you know I can I can only imagine what you're experiencing and I'm not telling you not to feel that but if you're going on a date did you ever consider that maybe the ring could potentially not allow anybody to make a real connection because they could think that you're still you know some way involved with your but

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aren't you always going to be that way involved with somebody i just because you're wearing the ring doesn't mean you're not ready to date and experience new love and affection and partnership you can still say i loved this person i miss this person and i want companionship in my life i don't feel like it's one or the it's not like you wear the ring and you're still attached to that person and then you take the ring off and you're not attached to that person and you're moving on i just don't see what the big deal is i just think symbolism matters yeah like if you wear if you're

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wearing a ring it means you're married yeah symbolism i don't know i don't know if you're wearing a wedding ring with a big rock on it i don't know it just i know girls who wear their

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grandmother's wedding rings and it's just a way to feel close to the person that you have loved

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Lindsay, what are your thoughts, Lindsay? It's Mojo on the morning, second date update.

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Hi, huns. First time, long time. Hey, there.

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Oh, Lindsay on the phone.

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My thing is, is what if she had a tattoo that symbolized, you know, her ex-husband, you know, her widow?

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Yeah.

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It's still her husband.

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I mean, no, I agree with you. Yeah, there's others.

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and is he going to have a hard time with that? Would you have had a hard time if she had a tattoo, Jeremy?

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That's different. A tattoo is just on you. The ring, you have the choice. You can take it off. Exactly.

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She's making the active choice to put the ring on, and it just seems like she is not ready to move on.

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But it's a part of her. Yeah, I don't think those are mutually exclusive things.

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Jen, what are your thoughts? Second date update.

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I was going to say Jeremy could have just asked, but didn't Sarah just say that they talked about her husband passing away during the date? They did.

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Yeah. And she talked about the ring.

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As a married person, I feel naked when I don't have my ring on. I freak out. I feel like I'm missing something. So I don't know. I feel like maybe, possibly, maybe try to put it on a necklace or something if you think it's going to create problems in the future. But obviously, this guy is just not the one.

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Christina, what's up?

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Hi. So, he has every right to feel, like, a little uncomfortable with it, thinking maybe she hasn't moved on. That's fine. But the way that he's reacting to it, like, he's like, it was five years ago. Like, dude, it wasn't a breakup. A person passed away. You know what I mean? He's like, get over it.

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I know.

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Yeah, and he's so crazy. I hate his voice, too, okay?

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Thank you for the call, Christina. Alan, what's up? It's Mojo in the Morning.

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Hey, guys. First time caller. Hey, buddy. Hey, Alan's on the phone. I just want to say this guy is a sensitive jerk. My wife, before we got together, her husband had passed away from brain cancer. And they had a son together. And I still embrace him to this day. Like, I get emotional thinking about this. Like, this dude's straight up, you know, I don't even want to say what he is. But, like, you know, you can't just move on. Like, you have to keep his memory alive any way you can. So, for this guy to be that insensitive about it, he's going to be a part of her life, the rest of her life.

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And, Alan, I'm assuming that you know that your wife loves you, but you also know that she loved her husband.

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Yeah, I don't try to compare us. Like, it's two different things. like you know like so we have you know she has a son who actually just asked me to adopt him recently that's awesome and like it's like we still have their wedding picture up in his bedroom oh man i still talk about his dad with him daily so so what's ridiculous what do you what can you

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say to sarah that would make her feel better after getting rejected like this just move on

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this guy's a jerk like he did her a favor by showing his true colors right away and there

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are good guys out there like yourself so i appreciate that thanks buddy appreciate it she'll find she'll find somebody better sarah i wish you nothing but the best i think that you will find somebody that you can bring into your life that is somebody that's going to fill that that broken heart that you have right now but you don't have to give up your you know your husband for that thank you so much and jeremy i think that it would have been straight down just cool just call her back and just say hey you know what i'm gonna move past this and

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just move on yeah i'll do that next time all right well thanks second date update this is

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