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It's the second date update. I'm Mojo in the morning.

All right, second date update. Parker is getting ghosted this morning. Parker, what's going on? How are you?

Hi, I'm doing okay. How are you?

Good. So, Parker, first off, how did you guys meet?

Yeah, we met on Bumble. Okay. I mean, it was just, yeah, it was as simple as that.

And met on Bumble. You guys go out once, twice? How many times?

We went out just the one time, but we were talking a bunch, like texting and FaceTiming before we went out. So that's why I don't know why I'm being ghosted.

You thought things went great, and you've been trying to get a second date out of this deal, but now we're not getting any calls back. We're going to find out what's going on. Janelle is on the phone with us right now. Janelle, will you say hello to Parker?

Hello?

hello hi hi janelle janelle you remember parker yeah yeah of course what's going on janelle you've just been busy and that's why you guys

haven't been able to hook up or what's what's happening um yeah yeah i've been busy um

yeah sorry sorry parker i didn't well i mean well i apologize i just thought that i did everything right on our day because i i know we talked about how you like been treated very well um and so i was trying to be as you know on my game chivalrous gentlemanly as possible and i thought i was doing all that so and did he surprised me and been hearing from you janelle was he was he a nice

guy was he chivalrous yeah the date itself was good but um i don't know i think i just I was maybe raised a little differently than Parker. And I did talk about this before. I'm used to certain things. And I feel like if, you know, if those expectations aren't met, I don't want to waste.

What are you talking about? You're kind of beating around because I think you're not wanting to either hurt his feelings or you're embarrassed to say what's going on. But Parker called us up, so I know he wants to know what's going on. What do you mean raised differently? What did he do that makes you feel like he was raised differently?

I mean, my dad treated me like a princess, and I'm used to princess treatment.

But it sounds like he did.

He said he did.

Yeah, what did he do that was not princess treating?

I mean, the date itself was good. but it was after the date.

Okay. What did he do after the date?

He didn't walk me to my car, and that's a real issue for me.

You didn't walk her to her car, Parker. What did you do? Did you say goodbye where you guys went out, and then she just walked to the parking lot by herself?

We were on different ends of the parking lot, but I thought, like, we could see her car from where I dropped her off. It was just down the aisle from the restaurant, so I thought it was okay because I could literally see it. Quick question.

Is that a bad thing? If they walk out of a restaurant, you can see the car. He's parked somewhere else, and you say goodbye right there at the front of a restaurant and don't walk.

walk her to her car door. I've always felt like if you do that, they think that you're trying to get more than just...

So that's what I was going to say. This is very 50-50 because I do appreciate, like when Wes and I first started dating, even now, he always will open the car door for me or walk me to my car. Correct. Like he is very, very chivalrous. However, those first couple of dates when he did walk me to my car and I opened the door to get in my car, I was like, uh, are we kissing? Are we not kissing? I don't really want to kiss you yet. i don't know what to do you're actually a super vulnerable position i don't that's crazy that is not a deal breaker to me though janelle if he did everything else right you're gonna ding him on that and not go out with him again yeah that's weird it's so hard to be a man these days i don't think that that's worth not giving him a second chance by any means but to his i mean it was it was dark

I have, and to be fair to me, I laid out, like you said, we talked about this before, and I said, like, I, you know, want to be honest. I'm used to princess treatment. And if you're not going to treat me, you know, right, like, if you're not going to treat me like a princess, then I'm sorry. Girl, you're crazy.

To say that out loud, though, is that to me, if I were a guy, I would run real far and real fast.

There is a shoe for every foot, but good luck finding it because you seem like a size 14 stiletto heel.

Like, good luck. It's one thing in your head to think my dad raised me a certain way. I expect a certain type of treatment, which that that's a great that's a great attribute that your dad, you know, instilled in you to look for in a man. But to say out loud, I deserve the princess treatment, I'm cringing for you.

I actually do think that it's good to put it out there, like what you're wanting.

But don't say it that way.

But I definitely don't think that you say it that way. And I think that it's also not bad to say, hey, walk me to my car. Like, honestly, just be open and honest about it. Yeah. I feel more comfortable you walk me to my car. I don't want that. Bryce says that. No, I don't. Real quick, I want to grab Bryce here for a second. Bryce is calling us up, 844-MOJO-LIVE. 844-665-6548. Bryce, you think that this is more than just her not getting walked to the car. What do you think is going on?

Well, first of all, I agree with you saying she can be honest if she wants him to walk her to the car.

Yeah.

It's a first date, too, but it sounds like she's really just not confident in what she's saying. Like, she's trying to hide something. Like, not telling us something here. And what do you think that is? If you were attracted to him, just say that straight up. Because if she did like him, then she'd still be trying to go on a second date or still talk to him.

If you were attracted to him, it wouldn't matter if he's walked you to your car or made you walk five blocks. Elise, what's up?

Yeah, I think she sounds like a Kardashian. And he does a giant bullet. Don't insult Kardashians like that. Kim's a lawyer.

Which Kardashian is she? Is she a Khloe? Courtney. Courtney, what's up? She's definitely a Courtney. Kristen, what's going on?

Hi, I just wanted to say it sounds like he dodged a bullet because if that's princess treatment, that demand is insane. To me, I think if he has good morals, he's attractive, he's kind. That should tick all the boxes. What is it, walking through the car? That's just insane.

I don't think it's wrong to expect more from people.

For sure.

And to take care of you. But like Shannon said, it's the wording that she said that makes us all turned off by her.

And also, if he did everything right during the date and was such a gentleman and there's that one thing that maybe he quote unquote missed, I mean, come on.

Eric, what's up? She's going to die, Stingles.

Nothing's going to happen.

Damn! You're crazy. You are.

You want me to beat around the bush? No, be direct. Like, that's what you need to, if she's going to be that way, she needs to be direct with whoever the heck she's going on a date with. Be direct. This is what you want. Bye.

If you went out with Eric, he'd drop you off five blocks away from your car. Nikita, what's up? Hi.

Hi, good morning. She's being very extreme. Like, nobody's going to know you, like, exactly to the T. Right. You can teach people, like, how you want to be treated.

Yeah.

Mm-hmm.

Can I ask all the...

In a kind way. That doesn't come off so demanding. All she had to do was ask, hey, is it okay if you walk me to my car?

And then if she's smart enough, he will know, like, oh, this is the type of thing that she's like. I'm going to make sure I do this from now on.

All the women on the show, I want to ask this question of you guys. If a guy is, like, the most incredible gentleman ever, walks you to your car, doesn't expect much, you know what I mean? He's not trying to get a kiss or anything out of that. He just wants your safety. Great at dinner. Really focused on you.

Where's the bag?

here but doesn't look great like it's not something that you're really interested in do you overlook his looks for his kindness or do you think there's something you know

that you just can't deal like can you but let's be real i attract like the attractiveness to somebody's physical appearance i mean that's part of it yes i got plenty of friends yeah i'm not

attracted to you that is part of it i don't know because here's how i feel about it i care more about your values than your looks because if we don't agree on values it doesn't matter if you're the hottest person on the planet and it doesn't matter if we agree on absolutely everything and you're the hottest person you're not going to be hot for the rest of your life i care more about getting along with now does it matter i'm not i think it's stupid to write it off completely but i also think it's stupid to put too much weight on attractiveness it's got to be in the middle but it's got to be it's got to be there so for sure even a little bit but i have and maybe this has happened for you guys there have been guys that i immediately found unattractive and the more i got to know them as people the hotter they got yeah yeah and i think that's that's

probably a big deal too sometimes you got to get a second or third date to realize what a true guy really is every if you don't put your best foot forward on your first date then i think you're

if you're not attracted to that person you're not i don't give a damn how great of a person they are

you're not gonna fully be a part of the equation yeah you've never met somebody that you weren't

attracted yes but in the back of my mind it would be days where i would look at and be like and that

thought would come up but that's what i'm saying i have like to kp's point i have guy friends that treat me so wonderfully and you know do all of these things i am just not attracted to them a

relationship would have never worked yep it's just not that there has to be something um that i find

attractive about them. I don't think you should force yourself

to like somebody in that way. That's not fair to you or them.

And I think that this is one of those things where I think that honestly listeners are calling out the fact they just don't think she's attracted to this guy. She's using the car thing as her excuse. Alright, second date update.

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