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Second Date Update: What's Your Number
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Second Date Update: What's Your Number

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July 15, 2026 | 00:12:57 | Leisure

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It's the second date update. A Mojo in the Morning.

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If you do not get a call back after you went on a date, then I want you to do this. I want you to text date to 95500, and we will find out what exactly is going on, why you're not getting a call back. Try to get you an answer. Ava went out on a date, and she is not getting a call back. Ava, how you doing?

00:02:43 - 00:02:45 | Speaker 6:

Hi, I'm doing okay.

00:02:46 - 00:02:49 | Speaker 5:

Ava, I want you to say hi to Ryan.

00:02:51 - 00:02:52 | Speaker 6:

Hi.

00:02:56 - 00:03:13 | Speaker 5:

Ryan, are you there or did you ghost us too? No, no, I'm here. Okay, all right. So Ava, you went out with Ryan. He's not calling you back. We ended up reaching out to him to ask him to come on the radio with us. Do you want to say hello or see what's going on?

00:03:14 - 00:03:16 | Speaker 6:

I mean, I'm glad he's answering your calls.

00:03:16 - 00:03:22 | Speaker 4:

i i don't know what you want me to say to that honestly like

00:03:22 - 00:03:57 | Speaker 5:

what's it's just kind of weird what what'd you guys do on your date what did you do ava we went to a bar okay and then just had drinks and hung out with each other for a while how long was your date for how long were you guys together a few hours okay and at the end of the date what did you guys do did you kiss goodbye say goodbye what'd you do there was kissing okay that's it and did you say anything like hey we'll talk soon or did he say that

00:03:57 - 00:04:11 | Speaker 6:

i mean things progressed and there's more than just kissing but i'll say oh it kind of implied that we would see each other again did you guys end up having sex with each other no

00:04:12 - 00:04:23 | Speaker 5:

Okay, so it was just more than kissing. Ryan, are you not interested or are you just, you know, kind of non-committed right now?

00:04:24 - 00:04:32 | Speaker 4:

So, like, the whole thing is she was just really up in my business. And I was not really comfortable with that.

00:04:32 - 00:04:34 | Speaker 5:

Was it questions that she was asking you?

00:04:34 - 00:04:41 | Speaker 4:

Is that what you mean? I mean, that's, yeah, she was asking me one question just over and over again.

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And you weren't answering it

00:04:44 - 00:05:06 | Speaker 4:

Because it's weird You kept asking me what my body count was Like she asked me Over and over And over again What's my body count Like we're kissing She stops What's my body count And she said You know Because I feel like I deserve to know that if I'm going to be sleeping with you. So I don't think that's weird.

00:05:06 - 00:05:19 | Speaker 5:

Ava, you literally, like, just kept stopping, like, we're kissing, and then you asked me what body count is, and then we, you know, get a little past that. You asked me what body count is, and, you know, it's our first date. Like, I find it disrespectful.

00:05:19 - 00:05:28 | Speaker 2:

You were not wanting to share that, and she felt like you were holding back on her, so she kept asking you, and you thought that she needed to let it go.

00:05:30 - 00:05:36 | Speaker 5:

look yes that's exactly what i was saying and and and look i i'm clean i'm responsible i i'm

00:05:36 - 00:05:40 | Speaker 4:

not like some okay but how am i supposed to know that if you're not going to give me information

00:05:40 - 00:05:47 | Speaker 1:

but but him telling you his number isn't going to tell you if he is clean i think they deserve

00:05:47 - 00:05:52 | Speaker 4:

to know if he's like sleeping around with like a whole bunch of women you know well it's our

00:05:52 - 00:06:06 | Speaker 5:

first date i'm not like trying to you know commit to you right away and on top of that like i told you on the date i'm not like you know so slut i'm not i'm not that kind of guy so that that's

00:06:06 - 00:06:28 | Speaker 2:

that is actually interesting that you say that you're not a slut because i would think that a guy being asked by his body count that doesn't want to admit to it is not admitting to it because he slept with a bunch of women it might be that the body count wasn't that high and maybe maybe that's why you didn't say it or what was the reasoning of why you wouldn't answer it yeah why

00:06:28 - 00:06:33 | Speaker 5:

wouldn't you answer it thank you oh my gosh because it's personal and we're on our no i know i understand

00:06:33 - 00:07:12 | Speaker 2:

listen i don't care what your body count is and i don't think that it matters anyway but what was it what was the thing that was so turned off about the like when she first asked you in the beginning because typically if if you just ask some people that question some people are either hey i'll tell you 25 whatever the deal is and then there are some people that are like that is just so personal to me and i don't want to talk about that and i always wonder what is their issue with the the question is their issue because the number's way high and they're ashamed by that or is the issue that their number's way low and they feel like they're embarrassed by that you know what i mean

00:07:12 - 00:07:29 | Speaker 3:

who keeping count like that well i that's okay i hear you you are keeping count no look that's not what i'm saying at all i mean like no no no no grown bro i don't forgot like i it ain't like five to where i can just immediately be like how about this year leticia

00:07:29 - 00:07:35 | Speaker 2:

how about this year or this month let's talk to them that's what this is about oh you and ryan

00:07:35 - 00:07:53 | Speaker 3:

are the same kind of guy i don't have a notes page in my phone where i'm jotting down everybody's name like i just don't operate like that the my chart is clean that's what matters the most yeah but what happens if something came up and then you had to like notify then i guess i would do all of that but right now to my chart clean and i'm worried about tomorrow not yesterday you can

00:07:53 - 00:08:11 | Speaker 2:

kind of put a guesstimate to something like this and just throw out whatever he obviously was not going to do it and it's his reasoning you know is that he just doesn't want to be asked that question um i would have probably dropped it ava at that moment and i just like if we're fooling

00:08:11 - 00:08:26 | Speaker 4:

around like it's kind of implied that that's where things are headed next and i think that i deserve know that answer before i decide to be number 217 like i don't know but if that is so so so important

00:08:26 - 00:08:50 | Speaker 5:

to you 17 and and it looks like my number is not look look i'll give you like a rough estimate like i'm i'm not i'm not like that high i'm not like walt chamberlain over here just sleeping with any girl i could get you know i'm i'm i'm in the double digits but i'm not like high double digits and Again, I would have had that conversation if we had kept dating, but you know, I'm clean. You just said that now.

00:08:50 - 00:08:52 | Speaker 2:

Why would you not just say that then, though?

00:08:53 - 00:08:53 | Speaker 4:

Thank you.

00:08:54 - 00:09:02 | Speaker 2:

No, I'm not trying. I'm just asking like, if you said it just now, I'm in double digits, but not like, what made

00:09:02 - 00:09:07 | Speaker 5:

Because she was very insistent. Like, what's your number? What's your number? Not like, oh, yeah.

00:09:07 - 00:09:09 | Speaker 3:

She probably got the higher number to him.

00:09:09 - 00:09:18 | Speaker 2:

I think the tone that you guys have with each other make me think that there's nothing. but i i don't know if they i don't know what your tone was when you guys were talking to each other

00:09:18 - 00:09:40 | Speaker 1:

because i understand there was a point in my life where that i was concerned with that like i didn't want to date somebody that had you know been with 200 other women like that definitely was like a reputation that i kind of wanted to avoid but at the same time like you are already in a situation where you're about to have sex with this guy and this this is like a very much a priority to you

00:09:40 - 00:09:41 | Speaker 2:

Yeah.

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So I just think that the timing was interesting.

00:09:43 - 00:09:44 | Speaker 2:

Kayla, what's up?

00:09:46 - 00:10:00 | Speaker 4:

Hey, so I think body count does not matter at all, especially when it comes to trying to decide, like, if someone's clean or not. Yeah. Because I have upwards of 50 bodies, and I've never caught...

00:10:00 - 00:10:12 | Speaker 6:

anything but my partner only has like eight bodies and he's caught something before so the number doesn't matter it's who you're having it with it only take one time can we also stop saying body

00:10:12 - 00:10:18 | Speaker 1:

count god i hate that so much i really do yeah it's so like gross to me what do we say do we say

00:10:18 - 00:10:28 | Speaker 7:

how many people have you had sex with yeah just refer to that body count just sounds so like yeah what's going on how you doing holly

00:10:28 - 00:10:50 | Speaker 5:

hi um i was basically saying the same thing the last caller just said um but also i feel like um that was bad timing like really bad timing and you don't know when you're gonna catch something if that's what she's worried about it could be number one or number 300

00:10:50 - 00:10:55 | Speaker 7:

When is the right timing? If you're planning on wanting to have sex with somebody.

00:10:56 - 00:11:01 | Speaker 5:

If she was that concerned about it, maybe she should have said something at the bar.

00:11:02 - 00:11:20 | Speaker 7:

Well, I think that's where she was saying it. So I think the whole night that they were together for three hours, she asked a question a few times according to what they were saying. Maybe you don't do it and don't ask that question until a couple of dates in and then you decide whether or not you guys want to take it to that level. What's up, Wendy?

00:11:22 - 00:11:31 | Speaker 2:

Hi. If she's thinking about sleeping with him on the first date, she should probably assume that he has a fairly high body count, and she probably does too.

00:11:32 - 00:11:40 | Speaker 7:

Yeah. Let me ask you, Ava, what is the – did you give him your body count when he wouldn't give yours or his?

00:11:41 - 00:11:42 | Speaker 4:

I wasn't going to disclose first.

00:11:43 - 00:11:49 | Speaker 7:

Oh, so you aren't. Sorry. What if you guys both did it at the same time? Ready? One, two, three.

00:11:49 - 00:12:01 | Speaker 1:

I'm thinking of a number in my head. Ava, what was a magical number to you? Like, what was the line where he, if he said, you know, this is the number, you needed it to be low, to be below or whatever?

00:12:01 - 00:12:02 | Speaker 7:

What do you hope is number?

00:12:02 - 00:12:08 | Speaker 4:

I mean, I would hope that we are in the same ballpark, but.

00:12:08 - 00:12:09 | Speaker 7:

How old are you, Ava?

00:12:11 - 00:12:12 | Speaker 4:

I'm 26.

00:12:12 - 00:12:16 | Speaker 7:

So, so what would be a ballpark for a 26-year-old?

00:12:16 - 00:12:20 | Speaker 4:

I'm not going to answer that until he answers that

00:12:20 - 00:12:24 | Speaker 7:

Jennifer wants to comment what's up Jennifer

00:12:24 - 00:13:10 | Speaker 6:

good morning guys all the time long time but I never got a shout out tell us your body count first say now Jennifer on the phone yay thanks guys I don't view this as a body count issue what I'm hearing is it's a boundaries issue he has boundaries that he has not doesn't sound like was able to communicate clearly at the time and she's not picking up boundaries she doesn't either she doesn't understand how to go about finding them out so this is a boundaries issue he has a boundary with what she's asking and she's not picking up on that and she just keeps at it and if this is an issue with boundaries it will continue to be an issue with boundaries put a bow on it say goodbye and go your different ways there you go

00:13:10 - 00:13:32 | Speaker 7:

i can i also say i wonder what her tone was when she was doing it and if her tone was how she is now then it came across hard or if her tone was joking because sometimes you joke a little bit and go come on tell me i really want to know and if that's the case and you get really upset by that then you're probably taking it way too far but uh eric comment from you let's get a guy's

00:13:32 - 00:13:58 | Speaker 3:

perspective on this eric oh absolutely so yeah no mojo you kind of hit the nail on the head with something that that you already said something that i'm about to say um and i'm just wondering like why she was so persistent on like the first day understanding that why is she so eager to bake the cookies or bake the cookies and understand how many people that he's been with why can't that be a third fourth or fifth date thing why do you have to why do you have to be so eager to

00:13:58 - 00:14:10 | Speaker 7:

get with him part of me wonders if ava you were just doing it and at first not realizing that you were upsetting him or did you notice that he became irritated i mean i didn't realize that it

00:14:10 - 00:14:16 | Speaker 4:

was as big of a deal to him as it was i made it clear obviously i would not have fallen in

00:14:16 - 00:14:22 | Speaker 3:

i mean after the third time didn't you kind of pick up a hint right i mean like three strikes

00:14:22 - 00:14:51 | Speaker 7:

and you're out like baseball how about the sixth time okay listen i i got a feeling that there's no chemistry between the two of you and if you guys did have sex it probably wouldn't be good so they got that far we we um we've probably got an answer for ava but unfortunately i don't think that there's going to be any more relationship issues uh or that you guys can work out with each other so go your separate ways and go enjoy yourself thank you ryan for picking up the phone

00:14:51 - 00:14:59 | Speaker 3:

call yeah yeah and best of luck ava just don't ask the next guy this All right.

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