Well, that is not my intention whatsoever, but you guys know this. My kids are busy kids. They're in fifth grade and first grade and they play all the sports and they, you know, they do all the things and we, I try to make sure that there's some time and some downtime in there, but sometimes it gets overwhelming. And so after school, there's always something like you guys have seen my calendar. It's all color coded with who's going where and what they have and, you know, whatever, all their appointments. But on beautiful weather days, I think it's tough because you've been at school all day. You want to come home and you want to do nothing. You don't want to you want to go outside and play with your friends or whatever. So my friend Lindsay was taking my son Smith to his lacrosse practice. I was supposed to take Lucy to a swim team practice. And so we're getting ready. I packed her bag. We're in the car. We're, you know, backing out of the driveway. and she looked at me with tears in her eyes and she was like mom I just want to spend time with you and not go to swim and in my head I'm like oh my gosh part of a team I got teachers you know she made a commitment but also it was a beautiful day and I'm like done we're skipping swim we're playing hooky we went to one of our favorite restaurants we both sat at the bar they let her sit at the bar which I thought was great and we ate their bread basket and she had a big Shirley temple actually i think she had three and i had a glass of wine and it was the best afternoon ever and the greatest memory although now i'm like did i did i shoot myself in the butt because now she's like i'm gonna shoot yourself in the foot how are you getting your ass sorry i did get shot in the ass one time by a bb gun but that's a story for another day um no but like now she knows what that's all about and she knows that it's a possibility but it was really fun like it's nice to just you know playing hooky did i did i yeah you're gonna play a hooky and she's