And honestly, we, we have talked about it, but it, it was just one of those things where, um, he, he will kill me for saying this, you know, Wes is a little bit older and, um, I, and we, we both, I don't know. Like it, it was, it had been talked about. But I had been really in my head about it a lot lately. So this weekend, my little sister Jacqueline is out of town. And so our family and her really close friends are all sharing responsibility of caring for her two girls, my nieces, Stella and Navy. And we had them Friday and Saturday. And I don't mean this in a in a funny way, but having them made me realize that I am good. like i am good i am good with my family my family is very very very one more very complete as we are i just