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Sharing My Fantasy Cost My Relationship
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Sharing My Fantasy Cost My Relationship

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December 27, 2024 | 00:12:04 | Leisure

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I wanna lick, lick, lick, lick you from your head to your toes. And I wanna move from the bed down to the town to the city floor.

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Mojo in the morning, we were just talking about how couples, they need to open up and talk about their fantasies in front of their significant others. According to a new survey that said that couples that do it say that they've had positive things that happened in their relationship. But the problem is couples don't do it. They don't want to do it. Gary, real quick, I want to grab Gary as the first one here because I was telling my Betty Crocker fantasy. Gary, what's going on, Gary? Hi.

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Oh, hey, what's going on?

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Gary, you guys actually did the Betty Crocker fantasy? You guys did the frosting thing?

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Look, man, I heard you talking, and I had to call in and let you know it's worth it. Make sure that it is homemade Betty Crocker cream because if not, it tastes a little funky. You know what I mean?

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you know what's funny i remember we had uh pure romance is that what the company's called oh yeah we had the pure romance people come in studio once shout out to nikki i still remember her they brought in a whole bunch of stuff and one of their things was like the edible frosting and i have to be quite honest with you i brought some home with me not for me to use in the bedroom i wanted to birthday cupcakes oh lord no i wanted that i

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I didn't expect Betty Crotter to come into the bedroom, but once it did, I was like, okay, this is a game changer. We got to do this every once in a while.

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Well, I tasted the stuff that Pure Romance made, and it was actually kind of sweet. It was actually kind of bad. I'm not going to lie. But, you know, it's interesting that you talk about that. I don't like food and sex to mix. I love food, and I love sex. I don't necessarily want my food and my sex to mix.

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Yeah, you kind of got to separate the two different, you know what I mean?

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I feel fat already when I'm taking off my clothes. It's the last thing in the world I want to do. Like, I'll eat after I have sex, but I don't know if I necessarily want to do it. Has somebody ever shared a fantasy with you only to have it become a situation where it turned your relationship into something weird? I want to hear some of the crazier stories. What was the text that you guys were saying? Because I think that she's been trying to get a hold of that. Text her.

00:04:13 - 00:04:26 | Speaker 10:

A guy texted us that this is the reason that he divorced his wife because she revealed her sexual fantasies and apparently something about them was so dark or crazy that that was it.

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C, hi, how you doing?

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Hi.

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Hi, you're being voiced this guy. How are you?

00:04:33 - 00:04:36 | Speaker 1:

Oh, I am just fine. How are you guys this morning? Funny subject.

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Oh, funny subject. You're voiced this guy for a reason, obviously.

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you don't want somebody to know who you are or many people yeah i've been with my husband a long time and i had a daughter when i married him and she was very young and now it's been like 26 years but a couple years ago he's like

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yeah, how about that Catholic schoolgirl outfit? And I just looked at him, and he looked at me and went, oh, oh, no, she was a schoolgirl. Oh, no, that's messed up. And we just started laughing. I'm like, dude, you can't do that. He's like, oh, guess I won't voice that again because my daughter went to Catholic school.

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Oh, no. That's what I wonder sometimes. If somebody gives you their fantasy, and if they tell you the fantasy, do you wonder if they are, like, if somebody says, I want you to be a Catholic schoolgirl. Do you worry that they're going to be a pedophile or something, you know?

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My husband is so in-the-box straight guy that it was so funny that he shared that anyway. That's wild.

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Would you borrow your daughter's old uniform?

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Absolutely not. Please say no. That's a big fat no.

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Okay, I'm just wondering. I'm just wondering. Good answer. Jack, what's going on, Jack?

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Oh, either. Yeah.

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Jack, you ended it with your wife because of the fantasy? uh unfortunately yes um real quick can i ask you a question where are you calling us it sounds like you're in the middle of the ocean or something oh sorry i'm like

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i'm on bluetooth maybe i could switch it yeah yeah switch the handheld because it's tough

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it's tough to hear you i want to i want to hear this story all right is that any better there you go that's better so so you ended it with your wife because she shared her fantasy with you yes yeah yeah what was her fantasy

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um i mean i guess maybe it's not that it's not like anything like super crazy but uh all right i'm gonna just jump right into it because it's still affecting me i just ended it like two months ago oh boy not even two months ago okay but um okay so long story short she wanted another partner like she wanted a more poly relationship whereas i when we got married i that was not what i signed up for we didn't really talk about doing any sort of poly relationship I had it in my mind that it was going to be more monogamous

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and with the other partner that she wanted was it another guy that she wanted to bring in or a woman it was another guy she wanted to bring in another dude

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I can understand this

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you can understand why he ended it

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yeah was she hard pressed on this idea or was it something

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that she just brought up casually in conversation well it did come up like throughout the relationship

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a little bit okay oh no damn it his phone got bad can we call him back is there any way to call him back you guys i can't stop thinking about funfetti betty crack rice can i can i say this if i was as a as a man if my wife wanted to bring another person in the relationship and wanted another man i think it would be very difficult it'd be more difficult than if she wanted to bring in another woman because i would feel like i wasn't enough enough you know i agree but i would but it's interesting i don't know if it would be i think another woman is just as equally could make you feel that way too but you wouldn't feel inferior as a man no yeah unless it was the other guy was being brought into the relationship to like do things around the house because i'm not very handy that's acceptable i did then then i would be fine with it uh do we have him or no we lost him he didn't answer oh he got nervous or something all right then let's go to some of these fantasies stephanie are you there uh yes i am hi stephanie's relationship ended after he asked her to do something what was it that he asked you to do um he wanted me to go

00:09:06 - 00:09:15 | Speaker 3:

to the bathroom in bed oh boy in bed no i don't get the people that get into that i mean i get

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what she's saying i don't get that that's it's gross did he say why or uh yes because he said

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it would be like giving a part of me to him oh my god so i i very casually dated somebody and that

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was mentioned and it was like a big and that's done yeah really it was nice to meet you it It was nice to go out with you. I want to talk to somebody who likes that. Because I want to understand the other side of you. And the crazy part is I worked with this person. I worked with this person. So then I had to see him at work.

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Wow.

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And it was real weird. And I'm not yucking your yum. It's just. I'm yucking your yum. No, no. I am yucking that yum. There's nothing yum about it. There's nothing yum. Why is the person that wants to do it with you? It's just not going to be me. Why can't we talk about that?

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on there can i tell you because it's too descriptive yeah can i tell you can i tell you something though with that there are couples that won't even like fart in front of their other person let alone they're going to that level uh voices guys l l hi what was their fantasy that

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they wanted to do uh so my wife brought up to me about they brought what's that say that again My wife brought up to me about possibly swinging.

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Swinging. And you weren't into it, huh?

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I was apprehensive at first. I gave it a shot. But we tried it out one time.

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What did you think?

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I wasn't feeling it. I got performance anxiety.

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Okay.

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When you say swinging, is it that you guys leave each other with the other person? or all of you guys are together all you're together your phones are your phone is bad um with that when they bring up swinging and you're not into it you're you have performance anxiety if they're really into it does it make you worry about them uh yeah that was very uh

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iffy touching point in our relationship for a long time okay uh took marriage therapy and And basically just had to work through those issues and be able to reassure me.

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So you tried it more than once?

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We tried it once.

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But it caused for you guys to have to go to therapy. Initial S wants to also be voice disguised. We're talking about sharing your fantasy and how it sometimes is good and sometimes is not so good. What was the fantasy?

00:11:44 - 00:12:11 | Speaker 3:

So, I always had a fantasy about, like, maybe one or two strippers on my husband and kind of just sitting and watching, and I finally decided to share that with him, and he's, you know, obviously, let's try it. So, we go do it, and I literally, after a couple drinks, literally wanted to, like, WWF, like, fight the strippers.

00:12:12 - 00:12:14 | Speaker 6:

You wanted to beat him up.

00:12:14 - 00:12:26 | Speaker 3:

I was so mad at my husband. He was like, I'm sorry. This is what you wanted to do. This is your idea. I literally wanted to grab her by the back of her head and put her in a chokehold.

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By the way, get that on video. That would be a hell of a video. I like that we got more food in the relationship, and it's also frosting. Susan, hi. How are you? Susan? Suzanne?

00:12:42 - 00:12:44 | Speaker 7:

Oh, hi. Hi. Good morning.

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Hi, what did you guys do for your fantasy?

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I know you said that you don't like food, but you have to try chocolate cake.

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What?

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It was a game changer.

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Chocolate cake, like a full chocolate cake in the bedroom. Brucie.

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Well, just, I don't know if I can go through a lot of details, but it was, it was yummy.

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Wow.

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No, that's messy. That's messy. It looks like poop on your sheets afterwards. There are sheets that you can buy That you can just wash up And it doesn't go through the sheets on the bed

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Wow

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So that's a lot of work

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So you're feeding each other You're feeding each other the cake While you guys are doing it

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Well yeah

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Please don't ask Can you imagine Taking the time to get a cake Then have sexy time And now instead of cuddling And talking afterwards You're like, get up. I got to take the sheets off. I'm going to take a shower. Yeah, what if you're gluten-free? Cute. Not cute.

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