Oh, yep, yep, yep. I used to ask this question all the time of people, like, can you ask, hey, where'd you get that scar? Because there are times where you'll see somebody, instead of just saying, hey, we're, you know, like Howard and Shannon's, did you get that certain thing? I was like, hey, tell me where you got that scar. You want to ask that question? No, no, no, no, no. Well, here's the reason why, because you're coming right out. instead of staring yeah you're coming right out and saying that to them and actually somebody told me that they they thought that it was you know if it's done tastefully if it's like hey you know i never heard you know how'd you get that scar so i actually know though that could