have this friend that we've known for probably 30 40 years that his wife passed away two years ago and recently he started dating a woman that every time we see her she's drunk she can't walk he's like oh we're out bar hopping and he never drank so it was strange but getting to know her we you You know, he's like, oh, she'll get over it. I'm helping her on it. He goes, how do you like her? I go, I don't know her to like her. She's always drunk. And she's very nice, but you don't know her. And then he goes, oh, come on up to the bowling alley with us. We go up there, and she's already wasted when we get there. She can't talk. She's slurring. There's stuff coming out of her mouth. He's trying to feed her. And we're walking out, and she's. He's a babysitter. Yeah, he kept trying. Yeah, and we had everybody looking, and I was just so embarrassed. and my husband's like never again we're not doing this again she's always drunk it's embarrassing and i you know he says to me what do you think i go your hands fall i go i don't understand it this isn't you he goes well sometimes you get with someone you start to become like them