Sean, if somebody tells me something, I tell them right off the bat. I got to tell my wife. Because I'm going to say this to you, and I know people think that this is bad. I won't keep anything from her because then she'll believe that I'm keeping other things from her. And so I will say, listen, I will tell my wife and I believe my wife will keep that secret and, and not say anything, but I'm not going to, uh, I'm not going to be the person that's only going to be the person that knows this thing. And I've had people, and I said, so if that's the case, just so you know, and I've been really open about that because, because the pillow talk type stuff does happen. And I think that there are people that will tell their significant others, you know, the secrets and stuff. Right. So, right. But I think you got to be upfront if you are in a situation where you are in a relationship, if you are going to, if the person says, Hey, you cannot tell, like people will say to me, you can't even tell Chelsea. I'm like, then don't tell me because I don't want to know. I really don't. I don't, I don't want to, because I don't want to have to hold up to that. And then Chelsea comes back later and goes, you knew about this all along. And what else? I don't want it to ever make her doubt my relationship with her. You know what I mean? That's true. And I don't want to keep secrets from the person that I shouldn't be keeping secrets from. Thomas, what's up?