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The Tattoo Breakup
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The Tattoo Breakup

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November 22, 2022 | 00:12:26 | Leisure

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so Megan it's the tattoo breakup yeah this kind of blew my mind I saw it on um tiktok and uh I couldn't believe that this girl had gone through this so she showed a video of her getting these tattoos she got some scorpions tattooed on her abdomen they were really well done they were like really cool looking I don't think I was cool enough to get a tattoo like that but I i did that they were very interesting and the video cuts out and then it goes to a little bit later and it turns out she's really upset and was like what happened those look great and her boyfriend told her that she had absolutely ruined and mutilated her body and broke up with her over the tattoos i know douche alert right can i say that this early in the morning i did um total total uh douche alert because i couldn't believe like if you love a person why would you break up with them over a tattoo it's a bodies are gonna change bodies are like no matter who you love right now in 10 years their bodies are gonna look different in 20 years whatever but then it got me thinking how many people have been broken up with over tattoos or hair color hair colors piercings whatever it was just like weight gain or loss yes i don't understand because if you love a person they're not gonna look the same in the future that's like

00:03:17 - 00:03:35 | Speaker 2:

the list of the priorities and you want to be supportive of them expressing themselves how they want obviously if they ask for your opinion you can give your opinion but once someone decides to make a change about their appearance you support that and you understand it's not your possession

00:03:35 - 00:03:51 | Speaker 4:

it's your spouse has a tattoo ever caused a fight though in a relationship because of uh in our relationship a tattoo did cause a fight chelsea and i got in a fight when she got her first tattoo she told me after the fact well no i i didn't know she was going to get a tattoo when she was

00:03:51 - 00:03:56 | Speaker 2:

getting a tattoo oh the fact that she didn't even tell you about well i knew she was contemplating

00:03:56 - 00:04:26 | Speaker 4:

it but i didn't know that she was going to do it and she did it on a uh a trip she went uh back to visit her family in arizona next thing i know she got a tattoo but i will say this that uh that i i'm not a tattoo person and i think my my uh opinion of tattoos has changed over time not that i would i think ever get a tattoo because there's nothing that i love that much in my life to get a tattoo for i know it sounds bad hold on a second we have a family or something like that you're She's not a tattoo person. You can't have left it there. I'm just not a tattoo person. I should probably start right there.

00:04:26 - 00:04:27 | Speaker 1:

Walk away from it there.

00:04:27 - 00:04:49 | Speaker 4:

But I do like tattoos, but I will say this, that at the time I was very upset. Not that I own her body or anything like that, but I would run it by, you know? And in this case, this woman, well, just because I would just at least say it. Okay, so let me ask you a question.

00:04:49 - 00:04:53 | Speaker 2:

I think that's fair to say. I would have liked the heads up. It's not like you're going to say yes or no.

00:04:53 - 00:04:56 | Speaker 4:

Would you go get a tattoo without even telling your girlfriend you were going to get a tattoo?

00:04:56 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 2:

Well, no, it'd be a conversation. But you said she did talk about her interest in getting a tattoo.

00:05:00 - 00:05:09 | Speaker 7:

She thought it but didn't say when she was going to get it. I didn't even know she knew who the tattoo person was. Now, my wife is smart, so she researches much better than I do, and she knew somebody.

00:05:10 - 00:05:14 | Speaker 1:

Am I the only one who's like, I wouldn't even tell somebody? Like, it doesn't matter?

00:05:15 - 00:05:20 | Speaker 6:

I'm kind of with you on that. I don't know that I would need to get, unless it's on my face, I wouldn't need to get, like, an approval from Ali.

00:05:20 - 00:05:23 | Speaker 3:

It's not approval or permission. It feels like it. No.

00:05:23 - 00:05:25 | Speaker 5:

It does feel like it.

00:05:25 - 00:05:31 | Speaker 7:

Mike, what would you do if Ali just today went out and got a tattoo and came home with it? I would love it. I would think it was a second.

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Again, unless it's not like her face.

00:05:32 - 00:05:34 | Speaker 7:

What if it was on her face?

00:05:34 - 00:05:41 | Speaker 6:

Yeah, now then that's a conversation. Because that changes a lot. I mean, it doesn't change how I feel or anything, but that changes her entire face.

00:05:41 - 00:05:46 | Speaker 7:

What if it was on her arm, her forearm?

00:05:46 - 00:05:52 | Speaker 6:

Other than that, I don't care. I wouldn't care even if she did her face, but I think we should have this talk about it. Why do you own her face? I don't own her face.

00:05:52 - 00:05:55 | Speaker 3:

I just think it's nice to give your partner like a, hey, I'm thinking about doing this.

00:05:55 - 00:05:55 | Speaker 6:

Yeah.

00:05:56 - 00:06:03 | Speaker 5:

And then go do it. But he knew she was interested in getting one. He just didn't know that that was the exact appointment weekend or whatever.

00:06:03 - 00:06:24 | Speaker 7:

I would never break up with anybody over a tattoo. I think that's stupid. And actually, to be honest with you, half the TikToks that I watch where stuff like this happens, I think it's BS. I want it to go viral. I think they have to send us their phone numbers so that we have to prove that they actually did get broken up on and they just didn't try to get a bunch of likes on TikTok. Somebody left you over a tattoo, Sue?

00:06:24 - 00:07:07 | Speaker 1:

uh well i ended up leaving him but um so i was planning for a couple years to get a tattoo um i was with my ex-husband now ex-husband at the time and i plan it for a couple years he was all on board he was perfectly fine with it fast forward to the day i actually get it i come home after getting it he's gone he left he took my kids um and wouldn't come home wouldn't talk to told me i was a horrible person he couldn't believe i actually did it said that no one is going to be able to stand being with me now that i have a tattoo um ends up coming home and then our marriage kind of went down from there and i ended up leaving him that's that sounds like

00:07:07 - 00:07:12 | Speaker 3:

scary controlling to me yeah that there's a very big difference there big time what was going on

00:07:12 - 00:07:17 | Speaker 7:

before the tattoo though because the tattoo couldn't have been couldn't have been i think

00:07:17 - 00:07:19 | Speaker 1:

I think it was just a kickoff. Yeah.

00:07:20 - 00:07:32 | Speaker 7:

Yeah. Because whenever I hear these stories, I'm thinking to myself, okay, communication, obviously not very good in the relationship, but this is obviously full-on abuse. Right. What's up, John?

00:07:34 - 00:07:34 | Speaker 4:

Hello.

00:07:34 - 00:07:39 | Speaker 7:

Hi. How's it going? Good, John. What's going on? What are you calling for?

00:07:40 - 00:08:48 | Speaker 4:

I'm in somewhat of a similar situation. I find tattoos as an art form, you know, very, you know, you can see them and you know the hard work that went into them. But I've been with my now wife, we've been together over 18 years, and she had two when we started dating, and I was okay with them. but as i've grown and know what i like and don't like very open with that um and yet tattoos just on on the woman that i i love not a big fan um and we actually you know uh more recently this this summer have have had discussions about well i want to i want a new one for a friend's tattoo I love you I grew up In I guess A different culture Different Upbringing Where

00:08:48 - 00:09:02 | Speaker 7:

John can I ask you a question Are you nervous talking about this Because it's an issue in your relationship Because you sound very nervous So question for you Would you leave your wife over a tattoo

00:09:02 - 00:09:25 | Speaker 4:

um oh boy if if if there was no discussion no heads up it just i went and did it um because you know there's there's been other things in the past where uh selfishness and inconsideration

00:09:25 - 00:09:32 | Speaker 2:

have so this is a this is more than the tattoo this is a big this is a big issue here and it's

00:09:32 - 00:09:49 | Speaker 5:

but you have to own your own personal uh beliefs you can't you can't blame it on like well i grew up in a culture a lot of people use that as a cop-out you have to own your own opinion and your own stubbornness if there's something that's in your relationship that's getting between the two

00:09:49 - 00:10:00 | Speaker 4:

of you yeah no i i don't disagree and i totally own the fact that i as an art form yes and other people i you know what makes it different between other

00:10:00 - 00:10:11 | Speaker 2:

people and your own wife uh expressing herself um when i mean it's it's you know you're you enter

00:10:11 - 00:10:19 | Speaker 6:

in a partnership and and there are things that you know that i find attractive or find you know

00:10:19 - 00:10:32 | Speaker 7:

that i want that you know she doesn't so that doesn't sound like a partnership it sounds like you're controlling the way that she presents her body and that's not partnership to me i think this

00:10:32 - 00:10:50 | Speaker 4:

john i think that if you have a discussion and you talk about it and she says i'm still gonna get it i think you have to let her have her freedom to be able to go get her own tattoo but at least you have the discussion it sounds to me like you're on the verge of controlling if you're saying that

00:10:50 - 00:11:03 | Speaker 2:

well because we already know what the discussion's gonna be you're not there's only one answer for you you're not gonna it sounds like you're not gonna accept her ever being able to get a tattoo so what's the point of her having the discussion if the you guys have talked about it and you've

00:11:03 - 00:11:32 | Speaker 6:

expressed your belief in it and that i guess at one point is you know because and and and i don't disagree i i mean everybody is is allowed to have their own opinion and have have the ability to say this is what I want and choose out of life, on the flip side, if somebody disagrees with that, they're being considered controlling, which she does do it, she doesn't do it.

00:11:33 - 00:11:50 | Speaker 4:

Well, I think there's a difference between disagreeing and controlling. Controlling is, no, you can't do it, I'll leave you if you do it. Disagreeing is, you know what, I'm not happy with this, I don't like this. Can you rethink that? John, thank you for the call, man. I appreciate it. I wish you well.

00:11:51 - 00:11:51 | Speaker 8:

Thanks.

00:11:52 - 00:11:54 | Speaker 4:

All right. Take care of yourself. Tammy, what's going on?

00:11:56 - 00:11:57 | Speaker 8:

Hello.

00:11:57 - 00:11:58 | Speaker 4:

Hi.

00:11:58 - 00:12:00 | Speaker 8:

How are you? Good morning, everybody. Good morning.

00:12:00 - 00:12:01 | Speaker 4:

What's going on?

00:12:02 - 00:12:44 | Speaker 8:

So this was an issue, but we resolved it. But my husband did come home with a tattoo, and it was one of those things like, hey, I'm going to be late for work. He comes home, and I'm like, you know, you take your jacket off with a bandage. I'm like, what is that? so i will say that in the beginning i was not happy with it and i thought to myself you know as a partner we've been married for a long time i think i would have just appreciated the heads up he had always talked about getting one i wish he would have said you know what i'm thinking about doing this what do you think because at the end yes it is his body but i married to him and you know part of what did he get and where did he get it so it's just an arm band you know so nothing major but it was just one of those things it's still big though that's yeah you're more in

00:12:44 - 00:12:54 | Speaker 2:

the in the basket of how mojo was he was just kind of shocked it happened that weekend you're not in the controlling basket of that last caller no i just i guess i guess if he really you know because

00:12:54 - 00:13:11 | Speaker 8:

he ended up going through with it i just felt like i would have loved to have put in my input if that's what he really wanted to do you know and that's fine you know he did what he did but it's just i think after the fact he was like yeah i probably should have let you know i probably should have gave you a heads up so he kind of regretted that part of it yeah what what about

00:13:11 - 00:13:17 | Speaker 4:

this one here what about natalie's he told her no to the tattoo but because of what they had going

00:13:17 - 00:13:39 | Speaker 9:

on what was that hey mojo yeah we had a wedding in july and my fiance's always been really open to tattoos um but he wanted me to wait until after our wedding to get it he didn't want it in the pictures yeah and his family's a little more conservative but uh mostly he didn't want in

00:13:39 - 00:13:48 | Speaker 3:

the pictures and everything i think that that's a fair discussion but the decision is ultimately up so but it's nice that you guys talked about it i mean did you end up getting it yeah did you

00:13:48 - 00:13:54 | Speaker 9:

um so my tattoo artist that i go to actually opened his books last month and i am scheduled

00:13:54 - 00:13:58 | Speaker 4:

to get it now i was gonna say you needed to go like the day afterwards so everybody thought

00:13:58 - 00:14:06 | Speaker 9:

that you're going through a crisis you know what i mean yeah i was too busy in cancun yeah that

00:14:06 - 00:14:10 | Speaker 4:

Oh, I hate you. Well, thank you for the call. I appreciate it.

00:14:10 - 00:14:11 | Speaker 9:

Thanks.

00:14:11 - 00:14:12 | Speaker 4:

All right.

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