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War of the Roses Pt 2: Abusive Relationship
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War of the Roses Pt 2: Abusive Relationship

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March 25, 2025 | 00:10:03 | Leisure

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Mojo in the morning. Never have we had a War of the Roses where people were saying that they're so angry they wanted to physically hurt someone. And this someone is the husband in this case as someone is Ryan in this case. It's Mojo on the Morning Show. Where are the roses? Marlene, comment from you. What's happening?

00:03:06 - 00:03:19 | Speaker 1:

Good morning. I have a couple things to say. First off, I've only placed hands on a handful of men in my lifetime. I'm ready for this man to be starting on my other hand.

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Okay.

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So he's got my blood boiling. And baby girl, you are beautiful no matter what size you are. I help a dear friend of mine run a community for big girls, and you will be appreciated. You look me up on Facebook, Marlene K. I do security for the group.

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I love that.

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And I will get you where you need to be, where you need to be appreciated and loved for who you are. My ex-husband used to try to do that, talking about, you're going to miss me when I'm gone.

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know what bye yeah what is it what is the mindset i guess just so i fully understand what is the mindset to stay like why stay why not go as soon as you hear that when you're a bigger girl and

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you're with somebody if you try to lose weight they're like oh you're just trying to lose weight because you want to leave me and they make you feel like nobody else will want you and they break your mental state down to the point where you feel like you're not good enough for anybody else

00:04:17 - 00:04:48 | Speaker 2:

We also don't know the financial control that he might be extending over. Guys are really notorious for when they know a girl is leaving and they're in abusive situations for love bombing or getting their families involved to say, you know, it was just a mistake. It was just one time. You don't know if they've got kids together. That was one of the most shocking things I learned when starting to work with a women's shelter is the recidivism rate for women to go back to the situation.

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Marlene, I appreciate you. I know that we've talked before and I love that you continue to give good comments and good thoughts to those that need them. Thank you. And my name is Marlene Kaye on Facebook. I'm serious. Marlene Kaye. Okay.

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We're looking her up and follow her. Dina, what's going on? It's Mojo in the morning. Hi.

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Hey, Mojo.

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Hey.

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I just wanted to say that, first of all, he is very verbally abusive. He's not physically. And it will definitely get physical before she can get out if she does not get out now. My ex is in prison, and it started off verbal just like that. Oh, you're fat. You're this. You're that. And the other. And eventually, he literally tried to take my life. So as far as staying, I do agree with Marlene. But also, it's really a mental thing. And as a woman that's been in a domestic violence situation, they break you down. They make you feel like nobody else will want you, which is that's what he's doing right now to this woman. But you have to be stronger than that. And when his words stop hurting me is when he started using his hands. because I was like, you're not going to talk to me because I don't care. Somebody's going to love me. And I do hope to get out of that security.

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Great for you. If you don't mind me asking, how did you get out of the situation? Did you get out before he went to prison or after? No, so I was a whole...

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Oh, gosh. Maybe he should come back there. You were what?

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He was arrested for trying to kill me. Can you start again?

00:06:28 - 00:06:31 | Speaker 1:

How did you get out of the situation? Say it one more time.

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Here, I'm sorry. Let me take you off a secret phone. I mean, let me take you off to my station. I was already in jail. Like, he went to jail for a different charge. Okay. And when he got out, I went and drove to go pick him up after a year. And within 24 hours, he was already putting his hands on me. He had held me hostage at my apartment and wouldn't let me out. And I had to call Melvendale Police to come and get him. It was a whole saga, but he's in jail for 15 years right now.

00:07:03 - 00:07:05 | Speaker 1:

I'm so glad you're having him. And that's where he belongs.

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Absolutely.

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Thank you. Thank you for calling. I appreciate it. Skip, let me skip a couple calls here, and I'll come back to them. But let me go to Becca because, Becca, are you there? Becca. Seven. Hey, Becca. Hi. Becca, the other thing that he would do is he would play mind games, this guy. And I'll tell you what happened when we called him back just after we did this call. But you had a guy that would do that. You had a guy that would do the whole threatening to leave you or cheat on you?

00:07:41 - 00:07:59 | Speaker 3:

Yep. Anytime I was insecure or would question the shady things he would do, he would say, okay, well, if you think I'm doing it, then I'm just going to go ahead and do it. and did you ever find out if he did it did he did he ever do it um i have some strong suspicion

00:07:59 - 00:08:16 | Speaker 1:

that he did it and what what i wonder what the reasoning is when they do this like i always i believe this the reason why i thought this was one that we definitely should have made a call to um i think the guy's already cheating i think he's already got somebody else

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and i think when when to get out of that relationship and when in it's kind of like

00:08:22 - 00:08:46 | Speaker 1:

the guys who who project upon you that you're the cheater oh you're cheating on me i know you're cheating on me i think those guys are also probably with somebody else yeah um thank you for the call go back to uh nathan let's get a guy's perspective on this one nathan what's going on how you doing good how are you guys good you're hearing this stuff man doesn't it make you just

00:08:46 - 00:09:30 | Speaker 5:

sad for for men it makes me sick to my stomach i work in health care i've called in the past this is the first sign of abuse you need to get out i cannot stress to the amount of woman i see where their husbands take control it starts off when they start to withdraw then they get verbally abusive and next thing it starts with the physical she needs to get out as fast as she can um if you're worried about the financial side or the housing side you can always come get my contact you can always come live with me and my wife we're more than willing to take you under our roof that you need to get out of that relationship as fast as you can he is a piece of you know i can't say it on the radio but that is i i can never imagine talking to my wife let alone

00:09:30 - 00:09:59 | Speaker 1:

any female in that manner we uh uh by the way set lisa up with uh an organization that uh she is right now talking to uh and we're hoping that that we'll get some people on from that organization to to give us more details on what to do in a situation like this but we wanted to make sure that she was okay first uh terrence uh what did you think about this terrence listening to war of the roses and if you missed it it's up you can listen to the podcast of it the uh the

00:10:00 - 00:10:04 | Speaker 4:

possible cheater that got very verbally abusive with Shannon. What's going on?

00:10:06 - 00:10:10 | Speaker 2:

Yeah, I was just saying to the lady, that was very way out of line, man.

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Thank you. All right.

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He don't deserve to be married.

00:10:17 - 00:10:26 | Speaker 4:

Yeah. You know what's funny? His verbal abuse is worse than if he's cheating on her.

00:10:26 - 00:10:30 | Speaker 2:

Oh, absolutely. I was just about to ask that. I'd say, is that worse than being cheated on?

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I would say so. I mean, who wants to put up with that?

00:10:37 - 00:10:49 | Speaker 2:

I'm saying, man, I can't find love to first. You know, and this guy's talking to this woman like that. He didn't even start talking to your co-worker like that. Man, come on now. You need to crawl in a hole somewhere and live like a mole.

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Nope.

00:10:51 - 00:11:03 | Speaker 4:

I've never heard that, but I lick. It's Kool-Aid Man. It's Kool-Aid Man. I lick that. By the way, I can't believe you don't have a lady in your life. You sound like you got a way with words.

00:11:04 - 00:11:13 | Speaker 2:

Well, you know, I'm just, I'm trying to reestablish myself before I even find love again, man. You know, I'm just, it's just one of those things.

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All right. Well, thank you for, thank you for going on with us. We appreciate you, buddy. All right. Hold on one second. So, so after the call was made, which by the way, Shannon, after the call was made. What the heck? It was like you just got done doing like five hours on a treadmill. You were so worked up on that one. We called him back to try to see if we could, you know, get a calm down version of him. He doesn't calm down. Let's just put it that way. And that audio, we were told, could not be played. So we will have more on this War of the Roses. Stick around. Stay with us. We are going to be doing War of the Roses update shows. that's something new for this year that we really are getting into and it's by your you know demand our listeners that since we started doing war of the roses you know twice a week uh this past you know in 2023 in 2024 update calls too i love that as an idea i don't know how you guys feel about it but so many people you they come up to you and they always ask you what's going on with this couple and we have some people that want to be updated uh and those people will make it to the air and then we got some people that are like we never want to even be heard from ever again because it was so embarrassing after they heard themselves on the radio this is the home of war

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