Yeah. Okay, yeah. Thank you, Sarah. Sarah, how old are you? uh 37 okay so say i don't know 10 years ago or or more you're dating through college and you date somebody and i don't know if this is the case for you and you want to kind of like move on from uh a relationship that's the part of my life where i always was like what he's doing where i was distant yeah you know i always i never wanted to like just be up front like i never and i in of I dated and married Chelsea very, very young, but before Chelsea, I had a couple of girls that I would date, and I was always that guy that just – it was the change of a season for me in my life, and it was like, all right, I don't want to be with them. And I don't know if any of the listeners have ever done what this guy is doing, but I know everybody was like, oh, he's gaslighting. Okay, but back then, what it is is you just don't want to hurt somebody's feelings, so you just kind of say, all right, we were away at college. I was away from you for a while Where we weren't together Now I'm coming back home And instead of saying Hey you know what We shouldn't even date anymore I'm just like I still want to be away You know Yeah But away locally In your You know Town that you live in I can see that Ashley what's up It's War of the Roses