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What Do Couples Fight About Most?
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What Do Couples Fight About Most?

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January 1, 2025 | 00:13:08 | Leisure

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mojo in the morning show what listen to this what do people fight about what do what do couples fight about the most uh revealed in a latest survey was the number one thing that couples argue about and i actually found it really interesting because for us this is not our case for my wife and I but number one most thought about thing that couples argue about sex in relationships or marriages sex is the most common issue that partners argue about the second is money followed by family parenting styles talking to exes sharing private relationship issues with others religion and then being too possessive this is according to marriage.com the things that people fight about the most it's interesting because i'm going through this list and i'm going to tell you in a second here what because i i'll tell you that what chelsea and i fight about the most you guys think of uh yours too but i found it interesting that sex is number one because i would think that sex would not be like the most fought about i would think money would have been number one like that made sense and then i'd say i thought family would be higher up there yeah family would be interesting for one or two family would be interesting and then also i would i would think that i've been hearing a lot of times now i feel like even more so than ever guys being too um possessive possessive yeah and controlling um here's for chelsea and i so my wife and i chelsea and i um hold on you know what hold on a second that's where she at i wonder if she's available to call and fight with. She's driving up to East Lansing right now. So maybe she's, I don't know, because her friend Leah's son goes to Michigan State. Hello? Are you on your drive

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right now? I am. We are. We're in the car. Guess what

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we're talking about right now?

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I'm listening. We were listening. Oh, are you

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really? Okay. So for Chelsea, that's Leah, by the way. So hi to Leah, you guys. Hi, Leah.

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Hey, guys.

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Leah listens to the show a lot more than Chelsea does. Leah's actually my radio wife. Chelsea's my real wife. And Leah's very supportive of me. We're Chelsea sometimes. Eh, sometimes. So for Chelsea and I, we fight about the most our kids. Our kids are our biggest fight. And it's usually our kids being a pain in the ass cause for you and I to get into fights, Chelsea.

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Why is that? Why would we fight about that?

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Because they're, they're, they're jerks. Yes.

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Or because I need a partner in helping me parent.

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Weird. Ah, okay. It's mine. She says I need to step up a little bit with the parenting thing. Um, our kids are definitely the one. So can, can we talk about, uh, the, the text message from Luke last night or no?

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I don't think that's a good idea.

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All right. We're not going to talk about, we're not going to talk about that yet.

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I am so happy you called her so that she could say that.

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I'm not going to say that then.

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It's still ongoing. It's gotten even bigger.

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Oh, it has?

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Uh-huh.

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All right. Well, you and I will talk off the air when we go into the next commercial break. but I find it interesting the two things that I came up with that we fight about the most are kids and then my work would probably be number two am I right

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and your phone

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and my phone is number three and notice that none of these things are things that I fight with her about because I have no problems with Chelsea I'm usually, you know what I mean because I think I am very calm and cool and I let things not get to me Am I right?

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Or I think there always has to be a problem, and then always the one who's not the problem.

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Oh, okay. What she said on this one here. Did we ever in our past ever fight about sex, though? Was sex ever a big thing in our marriage to fight about?

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No.

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Because that's number one. And also, how do you fight about it when there's not any of it? So, you know.

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That is very true. It's so true. What about each other's families?

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Oh, Chelsea, do you want to talk about my family?

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You don't fight about my family ever.

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Never.

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And I'll just leave it at that.

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That's it. Yes. Her family, we never fight about it. But Chelsea, we've had some issues. My sisters have said sometimes, or one in particular has said some things sometimes that hurt Chelsea. And then also me not sticking up for her is a big deal. That's actually a common place in our marriage. Um, money was big one in our, in our marriage, uh, early on. And, and, uh, that was a big problem for us. I remember that religion's never been, although I didn't want to send our kids to Catholic school. You did. I wasn't Chelsea's not even Catholic and she wanted them. And I, I, I opposed that. I'm trying to think of some of these other ones here. Am I ever possessive of you?

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No.

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Are you possessive of me? Yeah, I was kind of, I know. Megan's right. I was kind of breathing a sigh of relief. I need to know the Luke thing. I'm going to call you here in a second. I'm going to end this conversation early because I want to know what the hell is going on. Now I'm worried about that.

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Listen, don't be worried. Just finish your show because I don't know if you can compartmentalize good and bad right now.

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Oh, Jesus. That's my work. That's my work wife. Oh, God.

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That feels like...

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We'll talk later, hon. Okay, we'll talk later. it does feel like as soon as the show's over you're going to get a call going get in the car get in the car you're driving to east lansing and we're moving back uh luke what's going on

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jessica how you doing hey doing good how are you good what do you guys fight about well i was just gonna say that i i heard what you were saying like from sex and money and kids and all that and i think it's also important to identify the root issue which is i feel like not being understood or feeling that your point to prove is more superior than understanding your wife's point of view yeah and i think all the time we just want to prove that we're right and we just want to make a point and we're just kind of forgetting that um both of our ideas should

00:08:32 - 00:08:45 | Speaker 1:

come together that is actually a really good point that's actually very smart to say i think a lot of times people don't want to be anything more than just heard right absolutely no that's great yeah

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that's a good that's good are you married uh not yet but i'm on the way really uh are you are you sure you want to do that absolutely absolutely i mean it took a lot of time for me to really just like i was i was a really stubborn person and i think at some point when you really want to settle down with someone yeah you have to let your guard down and you know there's a reason why you choose that person and you just got to give them a chance you know every time you're stuck and you feel like you don't have a way out and you're just so frustrated yeah um you really just have to give their idea a chance and i think that's so important are you in therapy and that's how you came up with

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all this stuff because that's pretty or are you a therapist you know i also i had to do some

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reflection to figure this out too so i just wanted to you know shed some light on it i think it's so important i think so important and it worked wonders for me so wow this we got to have you

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on with us more often jessica what's going on lily hi what's happening hi lily oh hi there hi what do you guys fight about wait was that kev here with us right now that sounded like kev going because kev is off today i heard that lily

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go ahead lily no we don't really fight about sex

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for family money sure but our number one issue is drinking really how come oh yeah um i think when we got married we were both alcoholics and i decided to quit and he did not want to so now when he overdoes it i get easily aggravated and it turns into a big fight oh yeah i can see

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that that yeah boy that's amazing two alcoholics coming together to get married that had to be

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pretty tumultuous it actually was fine for a long time and then it did become a problem did

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you guys meet at a no we met at a bar that was that was my second question but uh our second answer wow that's amazing well i'm glad that you gave it up i i hope that for the sake of your relationship and the sake of his health he's able to do it too yeah dakota what's up it's mojo in

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the morning hey good morning uh so yeah i i have a roommate and we we literally argue about like cleaning stuff like that not a couple but yeah we we argue about cleaning all the time and who takes turns and yeah that's our biggest one i guess yeah that makes sense that's uh boy that's

00:11:16 - 00:11:40 | Speaker 1:

an interesting uh thing cleaning is a one in our family too because we're not uh both on the same page on that one i'm not clean but i will say this to you that that does become one of those things where i think opposites do kind of attract in that case no not with cleanliness i tell me that if you have two people that are anally retentive clean that those people don't have like

00:11:40 - 00:11:53 | Speaker 2:

a very weird life no because you have one person who needs cleanliness and the other person is messy, I'm going to resent you for always, like, taking care of you. I feel like both Wes and I are both kind of

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neat. Are you guys both? Yeah. You guys seem like that. You guys always seem very clean together. Yeah. I bet you fold your underwear.

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I do not fold my underwear. He does. I fold his underwear for him.

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Stephanie, Stephanie, what's going on?

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Don't be that impressed.

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Hi, what's up, Stephanie?

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Hi, so I think maybe Spank Banks, which

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Wait, what do you guys fight about?

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Well, we don't fight anymore, but in the last year, now I'm 33, and I'd never heard of this. It's called a SPANK, S-P-A-N-K, bank, is what he referred to. And it's a series of pictures from, depending on axes, and then they have them on different forms. So they have them on a flash drive or a female.

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He has them saved as his spank bank that he uses to masturbate to?

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Yeah. And people he knows? Oh, there were, yeah. We, yeah, yeah. And I mean, there were ones from when he was girlfriends that he was dating like 18. Oh, no, no, no. Like 34. Babe, red flag. That is a big no. Babe, red flag. Where is the trap?

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No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Or I was thinking, run.

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Why do we not fight over this? We don't fight anymore, but that's actually the reason I called off a wedding because I had found it. And it was like the fourth or fifth time and he kept saying he was going to delete it. And then I found it. I found it on various forms. And I'm not great with technology. I found it on an email. Then I found it on, like, a Samsung drive, which I didn't even know existed. And he had it on pictures. And then I found a flash drive of his first girlfriend, like, seven pictures in his work bag. And I bought him. Jeez. And you are still with him, you said?

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No.

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No, we were supposed to get married last year. But, yeah, I actually found it the day before the wedding, the flash drive. So, shout out to you know who you are.

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That's pretty crazy.

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Wait, so, Stephanie, you canceled the wedding the day before the wedding? Yes, I did.

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Quick question for you.

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Okay, wait, that's a whole other problem.

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Do you think you're in his current spank bank?

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Absolutely.

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Oh, my God.

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And that would be a frustration because who knows, Woody? And it's scary because we've dated for someone for so long. I mean, I had never heard about a spank bank, and it's very embarrassing. However, because I'm 33, it's just wild. And I feel like girls should know about that because I felt incredibly ignorant. Like, I figured maybe guys kept a few pictures, but not banked. And there's a name for it because all of his friends knew exactly what it was.

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Let me just tell you, that's a guy that, honestly, I worry.

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about other issues going on with him if he's got that many. Wow.

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Amen. Well, bless you all.

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Well, thank you. Thank you. I appreciate that.

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