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Who is in The Birth Room?
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Who is in The Birth Room?

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April 16, 2025 | 00:09:40 | Leisure

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All right, Mojo in the Morning Show. If you're somebody that's ever given birth to a baby, you know that sometimes in family situations, people might get offended when it comes to who's in the delivery room and who's not in the delivery room. Megan, you got a friend that's going through this right now.

00:02:07 - 00:03:07 | Speaker 7:

Yeah. So this past weekend, I was at a birthday party. A friend of mine is pregnant and her and her husband are expecting their second child. And they were fighting. And I was like, oh, girl, give me all the details. What's wrong? and they're fighting because his mother wants to be in the delivery room and she said absolutely not and her husband thinks that it's unreasonable for her to say no to his mom being in the delivery room and let me tell you every my breathing i know i know is that something you learn he was like i don't understand i don't understand she gets to have her mom why can't my mom be in there And she was like, absolutely not. And every girl in that room was like, bro, let it go. This is not your choice. You do not get to say this. It's causing major issues in their relationship. But all the girls were on her side and his mom should not be in the delivery room. They were all on her side.

00:03:07 - 00:03:09 | Speaker 5:

Did you have moms in the delivery room?

00:03:09 - 00:03:24 | Speaker 8:

We had zero moms, zero family members. We decided that we just wanted it to be a moment between, you know, the two of us. And that was it. And that was a very, very hard conversation to have.

00:03:24 - 00:03:32 | Speaker 7:

Well, he was like, I don't understand because for the first one, we did it your way. And I was like, it's still her way. It's still her first. Let me tell you something.

00:03:32 - 00:03:48 | Speaker 8:

It is her body that is exposed. Crazy things happen. you need to mama needs to feel the most comfortable in this decision making and if I feel like she very much gets a say in who's in there and who's not

00:03:48 - 00:04:06 | Speaker 6:

I don't like it yeah I mean duh she get a say duh her body exposed but that just means that I don't have any say so in this process at all it's my baby coming through that vagina as well why can't I be a girl her body I hear all of that but my experience doesn't matter at all in this no that's crazy you're just a sperm donor that's ridiculous

00:04:06 - 00:04:07 | Speaker 5:

until she asks for child support

00:04:07 - 00:04:11 | Speaker 6:

exactly You gave birth, I gave life. But somehow, someway, I'm not a part of this.

00:04:12 - 00:05:00 | Speaker 5:

It's crazy. In our three cases, Chelsea's mom was in the delivery room with Chelsea and myself. And then in one of the cases, we wanted to have Chelsea's dad in the delivery room to cut the umbilical cord. But unfortunately, somebody directed him to the wrong room. No. And he walked into the right room after we had already done everything. And he goes, I'm suing. Which, by the way, a hospital doesn't. like that but go back to it i believe as a dad of a of three children that first off my mom has passed so she there was no even thought of this you know that that wasn't you know going to bring her back from the dead and have her in the room with us although she probably but uh as like i think that is chelsea's right to pick because

00:05:00 - 00:05:29 | Speaker 3:

she is giving birth to the baby but i think chelsea if i were to say to have said to her hey would my would it be okay my mom would love to be in the room i don't think chelsea would have turned it down uh it just wasn't an option but i do think that it's the mom's choice on this one like i don't think that the mom like and as a guy and kev i know this because kev you weren't unfortunately in the the room for joe uh but for um journey you were in the room did who was in the

00:05:29 - 00:05:42 | Speaker 2:

room with nobody so it's just it wasn't even like a question like nobody asked for that moment yeah but if sherelle mama was in there then my mom wanted to be in autumn like yeah why not how your mama gonna get in here and not my mama like what we doing yeah okay yeah so i probably would have

00:05:42 - 00:05:49 | Speaker 1:

said it differently but vulnerable like wild moment there's so much going on i yeah doctors

00:05:49 - 00:05:55 | Speaker 3:

don't necessarily even want anybody else in there for sure i remember dr werner um andrew and i had

00:05:55 - 00:06:16 | Speaker 1:

said to dr werner like we just want it to be the two of us and i remember dr werner and i said i think my mom especially is going to have a very hard time with this and he said let me and let my nurses be the bad guys like have this conversation with your families beforehand but on that day like everybody's feelings you know are heightened let the nurses be the bad guys in this situation

00:06:16 - 00:06:46 | Speaker 9:

so you guys don't have to hey carrie what's up hey what's going on uh not much um so yeah my daughter she was you know probably a couple hours before giving birth and um her boyfriend no lie sent her text to say that um she he would appreciate it if i left so they could have it would just be him and her oh so you're grandma huh i am grandma and she i am the grandma he

00:06:46 - 00:06:52 | Speaker 3:

kicked grandma out of the delivery room how did that go he did didn't have the boss to tell me

00:06:52 - 00:06:57 | Speaker 8:

he had to send her a text and she sent me the text wow so what did you and i looked at her i'm like

00:06:57 - 00:07:04 | Speaker 3:

what in the world did you get did you leave or did you go kicking and screaming i only left

00:07:04 - 00:07:16 | Speaker 9:

because my daughter sent me another text and just didn't want to stir anything up but i tell you what she does regret it to this day and i mean that's not anything that she can

00:07:16 - 00:07:22 | Speaker 3:

get back and you know that moment is the boyfriend still part of the picture yeah and to top it off

00:07:22 - 00:07:29 | Speaker 9:

he's two years younger than me oh jesus oh my god yeah so yeah it gives you a good indication he's

00:07:29 - 00:07:40 | Speaker 3:

a fruit pie wait a second wait hold on a second hold on google that hold on your boyfriend i don't want to google it because i might have to dump it uh wait your baby daddy your baby daddy was how

00:07:40 - 00:07:48 | Speaker 9:

old and how old was your daughter well he's 47 and she is uh 31 oh my god oh i got you yeah you're

00:07:48 - 00:07:55 | Speaker 3:

telling me that's fun you're telling me that's crazy yeah oh my god that's nuts uh deanna what's

00:07:55 - 00:08:19 | Speaker 7:

up it's mojo in the morning hi i just found because i kind of i've been through it four times with my ex and he wanted his mother in and absolutely not because at that point it's one of those things where it's all about our level of comfortability we're already in enough pain and stress and seeing our baby daddy's rat face mom that some of us don't have the best relationship

00:08:19 - 00:08:24 | Speaker 3:

wait a second you just called your you just called your mother-in-law the rat face oh my god

00:08:24 - 00:08:34 | Speaker 6:

she's not my mother-in-law anymore i'm good that woman's the devil oh jeez now the guy that i'm But now, if we were to have kids, yeah, I would absolutely let his mom in.

00:08:34 - 00:08:41 | Speaker 3:

By the way, if you're listening, new mother-in-law, don't ever get Deanna angry.

00:08:42 - 00:08:45 | Speaker 7:

This woman lives in California. I don't care.

00:08:45 - 00:08:45 | Speaker 3:

Okay.

00:08:46 - 00:08:58 | Speaker 7:

But no, it's like I get Kevin's point. It is his baby, too. But at that current moment, it's our level of comfortability and awkwardness. Because we don't want every Tom Dick and Harry looking at our who-haw. We're already exposed enough.

00:08:58 - 00:09:06 | Speaker 1:

Yeah, have mom in the room during the labor even, like hang out. But when it's time to push, everybody can wait outside.

00:09:06 - 00:09:23 | Speaker 4:

Can I tell you my friend's response that was the absolute funniest part of the conversation? She said if she wants to be in the room, she has to get up on a table and poop in front of me. What? And then she can be in the birthing room. Really? Yeah, because it is possible for you to poop during labor.

00:09:23 - 00:09:36 | Speaker 3:

I promise you, it's very possible. it's funny that you said that because kate is on the phone here and the call screen says kate let the dad poop in front of her parents first why did you say that oh my gosh that's so funny

00:09:36 - 00:09:56 | Speaker 5:

because i have given birth four times and there are other things that happen to your body during the delivery process other than just giving birth yeah and it's a very intimate time and so if he wants to go ahead get naked and poop in front of her parents over and over and over and over and

00:09:56 - 00:09:59 | Speaker 1:

over again oh my god over and over again oh my

00:10:00 - 00:10:04 | Speaker 8:

gosh i didn't i did not know that that's the case that's crazy i hope he call your bluff

00:10:04 - 00:10:26 | Speaker 1:

christina what's up i agree that it depends on the comfortability with the mother-in-law or anything else but it's a very vulnerable state for sure so it's not that the guy's feelings or wanting his mother doesn't matter it should our feelings should matter more at that point

00:10:26 - 00:10:46 | Speaker 8:

And it should be, honestly, it should be a moment, I think, between the dad and the mom where they get to, like, experience it together. But I will tell you, there is no relationship that sometimes is stronger than the relationship of the birthing mother and the mother. So I think sometimes their mothers want to be there to help them go through it.

00:10:46 - 00:11:01 | Speaker 9:

Here's the thing. Let's compromise here. Yeah. If we want to pull it out of my pants and I got a doo-doo in front of your parents, let's do this then, right? Since you want your mom in the delivery room For that beautiful moment Next time we bake cookies and I put a baby in you I want my mom in there How about that? Is that okay?

00:11:01 - 00:11:04 | Speaker 5:

That's kind of kinky Do you think her mom should be at your vasectomy?

00:11:05 - 00:11:06 | Speaker 9:

I'm not getting a vasectomy

00:11:06 - 00:11:13 | Speaker 5:

But you know what I mean I'm just saying Does mom need to be there and watch you get a vasectomy?

00:11:13 - 00:11:15 | Speaker 9:

I'm not getting one I can't answer

00:11:15 - 00:11:18 | Speaker 8:

Hypothetically speaking

00:11:18 - 00:11:21 | Speaker 9:

You know you're wrong

00:11:21 - 00:11:27 | Speaker 8:

You know you're wrong what if she says okay your mom can be in the room when you guys can see that child here's your chair

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