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You Can't Come on The Trip if You're Married
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You Can't Come on The Trip if You're Married

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July 16, 2026 | 00:13:40 | Leisure

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All right, it is Mojo in the Morning show. Lydia is planning a girl's trip and has pissed off all of her girls or at least a lot of her girls. And it's the people that she's pissed off are the people that aren't invited. And what is

00:02:03 - 00:02:48 | Speaker 2:

the story here, Lydia? So yesterday, my cousins and I were all hanging out and we were discussing our end of the summer trip that we want to do together. And when we were talking about it, we were talking about it in front of everybody. And one of my cousins said, well, I wasn't asked to come and then another one was like well what about me like I would love to come and I was like why would you guys want to come on a trip with single girls you guys are married you're not invited like you're not coming and and their husbands were sitting right there and they're like whoa like we've never told them they're not allowed to go on trips and I'm like but it's just the standard like why would you want to come when we're gonna go out to clubs and we're gonna be out late plus some of them have come with us on trips and then they wouldn't want to do anything because they were engaged at the time or some of them were married so i don't want them coming

00:02:48 - 00:02:51 | Speaker 8:

what do you mean wouldn't want to do what would they not want to do they wouldn't want to like

00:02:51 - 00:03:05 | Speaker 2:

stay out at the clubs they wouldn't want to run the streets like you guys know when i go run the streets yeah you know when i go to miami lydia runs the streets till like six in the morning in miami no i'm out late like i like to hang out and sometimes here's the thing though guys like

00:03:05 - 00:03:29 | Speaker 4:

i would want to go with you i just and i would still like go out to the club and stuff i just wouldn't be participating in the same activities at the club that you would and maybe i would and maybe i would take an uber back to the hotel a little earlier yeah but i would still want to like most of my girlfriends are married but i do have a few single girlfriends and we all still go together yeah but are they're all married or no no no i'm saying i have some i have some

00:03:29 - 00:03:51 | Speaker 2:

girlfriends that are single no offense i feel like it's like a standard for like people above 35 to like want to do that what do you mean like i feel like some of them understand like they understand they wanted that you would want to go home early like for me oh you want everybody to rally like yeah the whole group like and all my cousins are young granted you know but yeah so

00:03:51 - 00:04:19 | Speaker 8:

can i uh ask this and maybe you can explain it to everybody isn't it true that if you are chaldean which is what you are you and bianca i always feel like i have to explain it you don't they're they're from another planet they're chaldean and that uh if you are married you cannot stand up or be a bridesmaid in a person's wedding yep that's also true and i'm not listening to that rule

00:04:19 - 00:04:36 | Speaker 3:

sorry that's really no listen if i'm married before lydia if that happens i still want to be her bridesmaid and i hope if she gets married before me i'm still going to make her bridesmaid my wedding i don't care about that me my friend talked about that the other day i'm not listening

00:04:36 - 00:04:59 | Speaker 8:

to that rule so it's a tradition we don't need to follow it is that's an interesting rule i always thought that was interesting i didn't realize that also went for girls weekends but i do kind of sense that this is something that might be more common in other people's lives because i guess if you know if i like i i should i was going to do this as a topic for tomorrow and and i will i'll do it later but

00:05:00 - 00:05:26 | Speaker 5:

the bachelor party for joe is coming up and i said i'm not going to the joe bachelor party now i want to go because of because of what they're doing and where they're going so i'll explain to you on a later show um but uh as a as a married guy if my single friends were going and doing like some partying on a weekend i don't necessarily know if i would want to go only because i don't think that my wife would feel comfortable and then it would make me

00:05:26 - 00:05:30 | Speaker 6:

uncomfortable all weekend being there married people gotta have fun too like if you had a guys

00:05:30 - 00:05:36 | Speaker 5:

uh weekend all my homies married oh okay literally well so then i'd be fine with you guys you guys

00:05:36 - 00:05:42 | Speaker 4:

go and you it's it's mixed married single i'm the only single one are they playing wingman we all do

00:05:42 - 00:05:50 | Speaker 6:

single spit it's like no i'm just playing that's a lot i'm fully joking but i'm saying married people know how to have fun too just because you get married don't mean like your fun meter

00:05:50 - 00:06:00 | Speaker 5:

is empty at that point do you think though if things were would be different if it was the opposite where it's like all your friends are single and you had one married friend would you

00:06:00 - 00:06:22 | Speaker 6:

still invite him yeah really absolutely i mean if if um if he felt comfortable coming it didn't feel like he had to be a lesser version so you want people who feel as though that they can add to the fun and not subtract from it yeah and even if they like you know what i'm i'm gonna stay in the room guys i don't want to come out like you're subtracting from the fun yeah even by removing

00:06:22 - 00:06:46 | Speaker 5:

yourself from the situation everybody got a role i want to hear so so the friends that are married are thinking that you are leaving them out but if they get a written permission slip like you used to get when you're a kid from you they're you know the husbands and they say that they'll abide by the run the streets rule that lydia is doing would you be okay with inviting them lydia no i'm still

00:06:46 - 00:06:58 | Speaker 3:

not know because you're gonna hold me back like these same cousins have held me back before and held our entire group up from doing things and going out because they want to respect their husbands what do you mean like holding back though because what if why don't they just go

00:06:58 - 00:07:02 | Speaker 2:

back to the hotel room and you guys go you shouldn't stop you go out but it's also like a

00:07:02 - 00:07:13 | Speaker 3:

caldean standard like you just don't want to let one of our cousins go back by her own herself and then you know we're just out and about that's just weak you think so no no i'm saying it's weak

00:07:13 - 00:07:34 | Speaker 6:

when they want to go back in the room that that subtracts from your energy that's what i'm saying we got it's like the thanos joint with all of the what you call them the infinity stones like you need all of them to be powerful like yeah you can have a good time with four stones but i need five in order to really end the world but kevin it's that analogy is crazy it's like bianca and i used

00:07:34 - 00:07:40 | Speaker 3:

to call it like two man so if me and my cousin are single and we meet like two guys like we want to hang out with the two guys, and we don't just want

00:07:40 - 00:07:50 | Speaker 2:

the third wheeler. Well, listen, listen, Lydia's been a third wheel with me. I'd be a third wheel with you, too. I like that. Wait, so

00:07:50 - 00:07:55 | Speaker 4:

Bianca is not invited to this, because technically she's in a very, very committed relationship.

00:07:57 - 00:07:58 | Speaker 2:

She's on the phone with me. Lydia?

00:07:59 - 00:08:00 | Speaker 4:

Did you get invited to this?

00:08:01 - 00:08:02 | Speaker 2:

The dramatic. Or would you?

00:08:02 - 00:08:04 | Speaker 5:

Did you get invited, Bianca? No, I didn't get

00:08:04 - 00:08:06 | Speaker 2:

invited, but this is like a cousin's thing.

00:08:06 - 00:08:23 | Speaker 3:

This is a cousin's thing. No, actually, like i would trust beyond gonna come along for this i i would yeah well listen so she'd be on facetime with bryce the entire time yes but i would get worried too that bryce would be a little upset if we're out at the club till three o'clock but here's the thing i think i've set a boundary

00:08:23 - 00:08:31 | Speaker 2:

the bryce where i told him i'm gonna do what i want but i'm still gonna respect you and respect us so if i want to go out with my friends have a girls night and i still do it i still do that

00:08:31 - 00:08:56 | Speaker 5:

and it's not an issue hey what's up jay your comments on lydia running the streets with the single ladies oh jay hung up the phone come on i said that great build-up that sounded so good it would have been great with you mojo i'd like to run the streets with the single ladies too um oh biscuit i'm bit it wait so that's where you guys are going you're going to miami and going to

00:08:56 - 00:09:11 | Speaker 4:

uh south beach my do you know that lydia does not pay for a drink when she goes to miami never that's a drink what pays for the drinks the men do the top of the double shot and that's

00:09:11 - 00:09:19 | Speaker 3:

another thing do you think that my cousin's husbands are gonna want their you know other guys paying for their drinks i don't think so not the chaldean ones let me go to amelia she'll be

00:09:19 - 00:09:33 | Speaker 1:

there for me what's up amelia hi so i am fully chaldean my friend is two she got married at saint thomas i was pregnant nine months and was i was made of her made of her made of honor

00:09:33 - 00:09:39 | Speaker 5:

Oh, so she still let you be the maid of honor, even though you were the pregnant maid of honor.

00:09:40 - 00:09:41 | Speaker 1:

Yes, nine months.

00:09:41 - 00:09:45 | Speaker 5:

That, by the way, is breaking the rules. Does she know that she's in trouble?

00:09:47 - 00:09:50 | Speaker 1:

Hey, that was five years ago with COVID, too.

00:09:50 - 00:10:00 | Speaker 5:

Let me ask you. Well, that's why, because everything was different during COVID. Amelia, I want to ask you a quick question. Now that you are married with kids, do you feel like you don't get invited?

00:10:00 - 00:10:02 | Speaker 2:

by your single friends to go on weekends together?

00:10:04 - 00:10:07 | Speaker 7:

No, that's not true. We still go out and hang out.

00:10:08 - 00:10:15 | Speaker 2:

And your husband's okay with it? Do you think Lydia should let her cousins that are married come on this weekend trip that they're doing to South Beach?

00:10:15 - 00:10:17 | Speaker 6:

Yeah, why not? They have a life too.

00:10:17 - 00:10:20 | Speaker 2:

Come on, Lydia. Stop being so mean to your cousins.

00:10:20 - 00:10:21 | Speaker 6:

Why, why?

00:10:21 - 00:10:25 | Speaker 2:

Let Myrna have some fun. What's her name? What's the cousin's name?

00:10:25 - 00:10:26 | Speaker 5:

I think it's Myrna.

00:10:27 - 00:10:29 | Speaker 2:

Crystal, what's up, Crystal?

00:10:29 - 00:10:55 | Speaker 5:

Hi, how are you guys? I just wanted to say that I also am Caldean. I've been married for quite some time now. I had two of my girlfriends who were in my wedding, and they were both bridesmaids, and they were married. I do agree with Lydia to an extent, but at the same time, you know, I was one of my older cousins. I was married first. My cousins always invited me to go out with them. I respected myself, my husband, you know, the group. You can still go out and have a good time, even if you're married, and you can still run the streets in a very respectful way.

00:10:55 - 00:10:56 | Speaker 2:

Yeah.

00:10:56 - 00:10:57 | Speaker 5:

I love that.

00:10:57 - 00:11:16 | Speaker 2:

Maybe this is a message to Lydia, but also a message to Lydia's cousins, that don't be going into the hotel early and not being fun, but then also don't be running the streets like crazy. You can still go out there and stay out late, just not have to do crazy stuff, right?

00:11:17 - 00:11:31 | Speaker 5:

I mean, even if you stay out late, it doesn't necessarily mean that you're doing bad things because it's late. You can still go out with married, with unmarried people, having a great time dancing, you know, and say, hey, I am married, but I'm just here enjoying the presence of my friends while we're still on this earth.

00:11:32 - 00:11:37 | Speaker 2:

How often would you have to check in with your Habibi back at home when you were on girls trips?

00:11:38 - 00:11:53 | Speaker 5:

Honestly, I call him just when I had the availability. Me and my husband have a very great communication. We have very good trust between each other. and I think that if you have a strong foundation in your relationship, that you should be able to do all things, you know, again

00:11:53 - 00:11:57 | Speaker 2:

to a respectful level. It's a healthy relationship. You got a healthy marriage. I like that, Crystal. You should invite her, Lydia.

00:11:57 - 00:11:57 | Speaker 5:

Yeah.

00:11:59 - 00:12:01 | Speaker 2:

Hold on. Nessa is on with us. What's up, Nessa?

00:12:02 - 00:12:46 | Speaker 7:

Hey, what's going on, guys? Good morning. Good morning. Good morning. I'm with Lydia. I totally get it. And here's the thing. This is her trip. It's the cousin's trip. It's her preference. I have a girlfriend that whenever we're both single, we go out and we hang out. We have a great time. She's all 100% into what we're doing. But when she's in a relationship, she'll, like, we'll be out, and I'll look up, and she's on the phone. She's on the phone with the dude, and it's like, okay, you know, next time I'm going to be with you at the house. Because why are you here if you're not really enjoying yourself? Like, I don't get it.

00:12:46 - 00:12:50 | Speaker 2:

She's still attached to the umbilical cord, right?

00:12:51 - 00:13:02 | Speaker 7:

Yes. Now, the dude is nice. It's not like he's a horrible dude, but I'm like, sir, let her enjoy herself. Why are you calling her? Why are y'all on the phone?

00:13:02 - 00:13:04 | Speaker 2:

We're running the streets, Nessa.

00:13:05 - 00:13:06 | Speaker 7:

Exactly.

00:13:08 - 00:13:15 | Speaker 2:

I just wanted to have a video of what Lydia and her friends do on these trips. Ruchi, what's up, Ruchi?

00:13:16 - 00:13:19 | Speaker 4:

Roach. What's up, man? How y'all doing this morning? Good morning. Good.

00:13:19 - 00:13:20 | Speaker 2:

What's going on?

00:13:21 - 00:13:51 | Speaker 4:

No, you can't bring the married people on the single trips. Like, they just be all in their phones and then checking the kids. Like, you got to, like, because you go out to the bar, it's just like you're single. You might need the love of your life. It might go down tonight. Like, you can't. And then, like, they might be with friends, the people you meet. But, Don, you got your married girl with you. And it's just best to be like the single trips go on the single trips, the married couples go on the married couple trips.

00:13:52 - 00:14:01 | Speaker 1:

I think maybe the problem is, too, in Lydia's case, is she's calling it a cousin's trip, but not all the cousins are invited. So I feel like I would be more offended in that situation, too.

00:14:01 - 00:14:04 | Speaker 2:

Singles cousin's trip. That's what it's got to be called.

00:14:04 - 00:14:11 | Speaker 6:

Yes, and my cousins are now texting me, and they're like, Hey, my husband's white. They would be okay with it. See, they all want to go.

00:14:11 - 00:14:12 | Speaker 1:

They want to get out of the house.

00:14:12 - 00:14:15 | Speaker 6:

Get them out of the house. They're desperate.

00:14:16 - 00:14:19 | Speaker 2:

What does that mean? Does that mean that the Chaldean husbands are a little bit more strict?

00:14:19 - 00:14:28 | Speaker 6:

Yeah. So I have cousins who are married to Pakistanis and another cousin who's married to a white guy. And so they texted me in a group chat. They're like, our husbands would be okay with that.

00:14:28 - 00:14:29 | Speaker 2:

Oh, that's cute.

00:14:29 - 00:14:31 | Speaker 6:

Still no. She goes, still no.

00:14:31 - 00:14:35 | Speaker 2:

The Pakistani husbands. He's the best. You ain't going anywhere.

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The best.

00:14:35 - 00:14:37 | Speaker 2:

What's going on, Jen? How you doing?

00:14:38 - 00:14:57 | Speaker 3:

I'm doing so. No, listen, Lydia. She is not wrong. She already said her cousins ruined the trip before multiple times. Like, she's paying all this money to go to Miami. Don't let no married cousins, single cousins, anybody piss in your margarito, your Cosmo, your pina colado. Don't let them do it.

00:14:58 - 00:14:59 | Speaker 2:

Don't margarito.

00:15:00 - 00:15:14 | Speaker 4:

I love that Jen that this might be my favorite phone call of the day I love it don't let them piss in here margarita uh all right there you go all right are you single or married Jen

00:15:14 - 00:15:18 | Speaker 1:

single I don't have friends like that so I don't even go anywhere

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