Yeah, I mean, it's such a good, look. I mean, it's, it's, it's, again, it's like, these are the questions we're, we're, you know, you know, as parents, it's like, you know, we're, it's such a blessing to be this obsessed with these people's lives and their wellbeing. And I think adversity is such a important word. There is absolutely no way that I could do the things that I could do, put food on the table the way that I do, if I didn't get the licks that I got and the bumps that I got and the, and, and, and was in the valleys that, that, that I spent a lot of time in. And so I knew, you know, instinctively, I know with my children, adversity is so necessary. And how do I teach my kids the things I've learned, but also know they cannot learn them the way that I learned them? Because there was so many times, and I'm sure it's the same for you guys, where this shit could have gone either way. It was razor fucking close. And like, you know, and we've lost people. I've lost people. I've lost my freedom. I've been in situations where, okay, by the grace of whatever you want to call it, it just went a different way. But, oh my gosh, like I've seen it really not work out. And so, you know, from a young age with my kids, you know, they were, you know, competing in martial arts. They were, you know, like everybody needs to know how to swim. Everybody needs to know how to defend themselves. Everybody needs to know how to be in the outdoors. And how can you sort of under the umbrella of safety, put them in really, really hard, challenging situations where they can learn from. And, and I think moreover, I think, especially for, for, for my boys, you know, how do I teach them, you know, in, in, in this day and age where there's so few role models out there for these young boys, how do I teach them that like, yes, like it, like it is absolutely paramount that you are a protector, that you're a provider, that you're somebody that can be counted on that that people in a crowd if something goes wrong will you guys have the know-how and the ability to be helpful but also equally important are you sensitive are you kind are you vulnerable are you open are you curious do you not judge do you are you hungry for conversation are you hungry to learn are you hungry to be challenged by somebody who thinks looks feels I don't know.