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Welcome to the Daily Stoic Podcast, designed to help bring those four key Stoic virtues, courage, discipline, justice, and wisdom, into the real world. What's on a hill cannot be hid. It's been one for hundreds of years, a place that people aspire to, dream of, look up to. They want to move there. They want to be a part of it. They want what it offers, they like what it stands for. America. The city on a hill. That's what John Winthrop first called it in the year 1630. And so for even longer than the 250th anniversary that the United States is celebrating this month, America has been that. And yet for almost as long, people have totally missed an important part of what that idea, which comes from the Bible, is all about. The full line, which comes from the Sermon on the Mount, is about how a city on a hill cannot be hidden. Yes, it's a beacon. It is also public. It does not have the cover of darkness, even at night. Both its virtues and its flaws are laid bare for all to see. In meditations, Mark Surrealis expresses a similar idea about not doing anything that needs to be concealed behind walls or curtains. if you have to hide it, if you need secrecy to protect it, if it depends on no one seeing what you're doing, then maybe it's a sign that you should not be doing it at all. In Right Thing Right Now, I tell the story of a Roman politician who, when offered means of making his house more private, doubled the architect's fee to remove any obstructions so that people could see he had nothing to hide. Whether America is truly a city on a hill or not is up for you to decide, but Each of us should try to conduct our lives as if we were being looked at and looked up to, because we are, by our families, by our friends, by people less fortunate than us, by people who don't like us. We should let our light shine and yet also let sunshine keep us honest. We must hold ourselves to a higher standard, understand that we don't get to make excuses or exceptions. We are privileged and empowered. Let's act that way. Back to school starts now. Get long-lasting battery life on the Dell XPS laptop powered by Series 3 Intel Core so you can work from anywhere. And now starting at $699 with exclusive student pricing starting at $599. It's lightweight, portable, and packed with enough processing power to make multitasking a breeze. So say goodbye to distractions and hello to more free time because you finished your work faster. Complete your setup with savings on select monitors and more must-have electronics and accessories. Limited time deals and free shipping on PCs

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the phenobarbital and the sleeping hand on the coverlet, counting up the sins of commission and omission, the trust betrayed, the promises subtly broken, the gifts irrevocably wasted through sloth or cowardice or carelessness. We are all so much better than that. I love in meditations, you hear Marcus, you know, saying stuff like this to himself. Stop monkeying around. How much longer are you going to wait? He says, you're an old man now and you're still struggling with this. I love the vulnerability there. Like he's not telling you to stop monkeying around. He's telling himself to stop monkeying around. And by extension, also you. But the point is, this is directed at himself because we all struggle with it. We all get distracted. We all get, you know, complaining and whiny and obnoxious and entitled. But we have to stop. But to stop monkeying around, we have to get serious. We have to take responsibility for our own lives, for our own actions. Yes, things happen in the world. Yes, things are unfair. Yes, things suck. Yes, there are injustices that need to be addressed at large, but you are responsible for your own habits. You're responsible for what time you woke up this morning. You're responsible for the standard you hold yourself to. You are responsible for what you say, what you do, right? We are responsible for ourselves and our own emotions. You can't make me angry. As my wife says to me sometimes, you can't make me frustrated. We are responsible for ourselves. And when we do things where we have abstained from this responsibility, I take no responsibility at all, Trump famously said. This is the most shameless, shameful thing that a person can do. But this is an important Stoic concept, right? The Stoics say, don't take responsibility. I sometimes contrast Stoicism with Christianity. It's not that they're saying, take responsibility, God says so, or if you don't take responsibility, you're going to end up in hell. the stoics are saying and i think this is what didion captures so well is that to not take responsibility over the course of a life ultimately is a form of hell it is a miserable way to live as she said it's to be beyond the reach of comforts the the drugs the sleep relief it is a miserable way to live so take responsibility for your life stop blaming others own what is in your control deal with it take it seriously do your best do good as we were talking about last week and you might not always succeed you might not be rewarded for it you may well be punished for it you may not get what you want but but you can look yourself in the mirror you can know you did your best you can know you're trying and you can know that on a long enough timeline you will be vindicated and it will work out. Be good, everyone. Take responsibility. Talk to you next time. Hey there, just a heads up. I'm going to be on tour this fall. You can see me in Australia and

New Zealand in October, in August. I'm mixing my months up here, but in August, you can see me in Chicago and Minneapolis and Detroit. Then I'll be on the East Coast sometime in November and December. Anyways, grab tickets to that dailystoiclive.com. Hope to see you there.

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